Many times, when two children quarrel, their parents' first reaction is to stop it, and then criticize the boss for not letting their siblings. This unbalanced education is not good for the growth of both children. Parents should analyze and reason about things rather than people, so that both children can get education and inspiration from them.

Parents should not beat and scold one of them in front of their children.

When their children make mistakes, parents always criticize them in front of their children, and even beat and scold them fiercely, which will cause great psychological shadow to their children. Parents should isolate education and prevent their children from being psychologically implicated.

Parents can't sleep two children separately.

With a second baby at home, many parents will focus on the second baby, often ignoring the psychological feelings of the older baby. Among them, letting the boss sleep in separate beds is a very debilitating practice. Parents should treat their two children fairly and equally, and children should not feel the neglect and inclination of their parents to take care of their children.

Parents should not let older children give way to younger brothers and sisters everywhere.

Many parents will say that younger brothers and sisters are still young, and older brothers should learn to lead. In fact, this is not correct. Parents should balance the two kinds of education and should not sacrifice the interests of any child. Brother doesn't need to make way for his sister, so he can't give up.

Parents should not always compare two children.

Parents often compare other people's children with their two children. In fact, this is wrong and unfair to children. After all, the premise and basis for parents to compare their children are unfair and unequal, and such comparison will cause greater adverse effects and consequences.