At present, children's education problems can be roughly divided into:
Intergenerational education: it is mainly the education of parents, grandparents and grandmothers in different times. Due to the pressure of parents' work, many families will leave their children with their mother-in-law or grandmother, which leads to many problems, such as inconsistent concepts, different educational methods and children being spoiled. The landlord should not ask this question, so I won't elaborate too much.
Parental education: Parents' family growth and different educational ideas lead to different educational methods, which is a problem that many families will encounter at present. We should face up to and face this problem, ranging from children's future planning to children's living habits, which indirectly leads to some family conflicts!
There is also the simplest and rudest way (having two children, one with one), which is of course difficult for most families to achieve. This happened to me because my parents had different educational concepts, so the couple gave birth to two children, one with one.
More and better ways still need to be analyzed and decomposed according to the specific situation of families and children, such as who has more time and who is mainly responsible for children's daily education. If not, different responsibilities can also be divided. For example, the father is better at children's extracurricular activities, and the mother is more suitable for children's daily life care, which can be coordinated according to the children's situation.
There must be a big principle on the premise, such as how to plan children's overall education and how to consider the design of children's short, medium and long-term plans. We can discuss and plan in advance, and we can also avoid unnecessary disputes caused by daily trivial matters.
Children's education is a top priority for every family. All parents are for their children, and they are nervous about every detail of their children's life and education. The starting point is the same. In fact, many details require parents to compromise and moderate humility according to the specific situation of their children, but parents don't have to be too nervous. Children's autonomy and habits are increasingly reflected. Slowly, children will have their own ideas. With the growth of age, we can also ask them for advice on many things, and also cultivate their autonomy and thinking ability!