In reality, when your parents, lovers, colleagues and friends misunderstand you and don't understand what you take for granted, it is easy to have feelings of resistance and resentment. When we can treat others' misunderstandings peacefully, seek common ground while reserving differences, and be tolerant and modest, there will be harmony in interpersonal relationships and social harmony and stability. Listening to others' voices and allowing others to express different opinions is the real gentleman's heart.