Babies need to go through different stages in the process of healthy growth, and their personality will be constantly improved in the process of growth and development. Many parents also have great doubts in the process of educating their children, especially how to choose between appreciation education and frustration education. Every child's growth environment and personality development are different, and the ways and means of education should also vary from person to person. Only by concrete analysis and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude can the baby form a healthy personality.
Appreciation education.
In short, it is a good educational method based on recognizing and respecting differences, giving children enough confidence in life and making them feel that they can do it. However, in life, we should also formulate certain rules and regulations for children to avoid over-appreciation and let children have rebellious psychology. In the process of educating children, everything is for their development. If your child is sensible, proper appreciation education can make him more confident.
frustration education
Frustration education is not to beat and scold children at will, but to let children do it themselves and solve the difficulties around them, so that he can get great growth in the process of solving difficulties. Therefore, we should also adopt appropriate educational methods in our lives. If you always criticize or even punish children with a tough attitude, it is easier to cause psychological trauma to children and even affect their normal development.
What is my personal opinion?
I don't think educators are the arbiters of children. Everyone should also observe the psychological fluctuations of children in their lives and give appropriate guidance. Whether it is frustration education or appreciation education, we must learn to grasp the scale of both. It is certainly wrong to adopt a single educational method.