Many parents don't know how to deal with the baby's disobedience They often can't help touching their children when they are impulsive. The most common is spanking children. Because everyone thinks that there is a lot of meat on the baby's ass and there are no important human organs. At most, it is a little red, which hurts a little. The child just learned a lesson.

But many parents don't know that if you don't hold back, it will be too hard. In fact, it will also bring serious harm to other parts of the child.

The first is brain damage.

Excessive force will spread from the hip to the atlanto-occipital joint, resulting in the overall deformation of the skull and brain damage.

Secondly, spanking children may also hurt their kidneys.

Because the buttocks will generally produce congestion after being severely hit, congestion will affect the normal excretion function of the kidney and even lead to renal failure.

What's more, spanking children will hurt their intelligence.

Research shows that the IQ of children who are often punished by their parents is much lower than that of children who are not punished Because corporal punishment will hurt children's self-esteem. It is very unfavorable for children to develop a good character by making them feel inferior, fearful and timid.

So how should parents treat disobedient babies correctly?

Behind every seemingly incomprehensible and unacceptable behavior of children, there are actually some unmet needs. Like an iceberg floating on the sea, its behavior is only superficial. What you can't see under the iceberg is the real reason.

Children can't express their goals with correct behaviors, so there are often many unreasonable behaviors. We need to know the real thoughts and purposes behind children's behavior. When you see it and then take the right behavior, the child's wrong behavior will naturally disappear. Otherwise, the more spanking, the more shouting, the more it will inspire the child to further resist and make him more disobedient. Sometimes parents learn to do cold treatment, but children's disobedience will be relieved a lot.