Mother is the mirror of the child, and the child is the shadow of the mother. Mothers treat people sincerely and children are educated.
Mother is very determined to do things, and children don't escape when things happen. A mother's mind is good, and her children live more sunshine.
Through the mother from the following three aspects to realize the formation of children's three views:
1. Develop yourself and keep learning: mothers should understand their own development, guide their children to choose correct values, and understand the importance of reading.
2. Honor the elderly and be kind to others: Mother's kindness and fraternity are the key to children's good interpersonal relationship in the future, and children should be educated to repay their parents' kindness.
3. Face up bravely and take responsibility for solving problems: A mother who dares to face difficulties and take responsibility for solving problems will enable her children to face difficulties and setbacks correctly, think calmly and face difficulties.
A mother with a healthy outlook is an important factor for the healthy growth of her children and the greatest blessing of her family.
The mother's mood is stable and the child's emotional intelligence is high.
A mother with stable emotions can teach her children how to control their emotions and help others digest their emotions, which is of great benefit to their lives.
An education expert once said: "Educating children is nothing more than talking to them. Don't get angry in a hurry. If you do this, you will succeed 80%. "
A really good mother knows how to cultivate her emotions from the following aspects:
1. Learn to shut up when you are impulsive: shut up, stop arguing, let yourself calm down, and then calmly and objectively sort things out with your children after your emotions have calmed down.
If you lose your temper with your child, apologize in time and communicate effectively with your child to minimize the damage.
2. Solve problems instead of venting emotions: Please give your child more patience.
Heart, guide children to move in the right direction.
3. Reduce expectations of children: accept ordinary children, give them more encouragement and recognition, and let them explore their interests more.
Learn to control your emotions, pay attention to the tone and way of communication with your children, and give them a healthy and comfortable growth environment, without complaining, being angry or being harsh.
Mothers are weak and children are more independent.
Only when mothers know how to show weakness and refuse everything can children grow up through trial and error, accumulate experience in the process of solving problems and turn them into their own abilities.
A truly wise mother never asks herself to be 100% perfect, but achieves 60 points and leaves the remaining 40 points for her children to write.
60 points Mom, start with the following three "learning":
1. Learn to express: Don't hide your true feelings, actively express your needs to your children, and exercise their learning ability and problem-solving ability.
2. Learn to coquetry: When the mother makes demands on the child through coquetry, the child feels respected and equal, which makes the child more willing to cooperate with the mother.
3. Learn to let go: skillfully let go, cultivate children's ability to do things independently, and cultivate children's independence and self-confidence.
Showing weakness for children is a concession, a way to express love for children, and a complete trust in children.