1, the confusion caused by children's addiction to games. Children always like to be interested in things other than life. The game network is designed by professionals according to children's intellectual development, thinking habits and growth trajectory. So it is easy for children to indulge in it. Therefore, the reasonable supervision and guidance of the game will determine the excellent development of children.

2. Parents' ideas are not unified. In the process of family education, many parents will play the red face and the white face, which is the biggest drawback of family education, but many parents think it is not wrong. The coexistence of black face and white face will only lead to a strong collision between children's values and the way they treat people, which is likely to lead to the confusion of children's values, and even lead to the distortion of values because of the disunity of parents' concepts. Originally very simple children, under the education of red face and white face, will only have wrong cognition.

3, the requirements for children are too perfect. In some families, no matter how well children behave, they can't meet their parents' expectations. Parents keep asking their children to "be better next time". Children who grow up in this kind of family are constantly demanding of themselves, and do not know how to appreciate the advantages of others, nor do they know how to tolerate and understand the "shortcomings" of others.

4. Expectations are high. It mainly means that some parents can't proceed from the actual situation of their children's talent, learning foundation, age characteristics and specialties. In order to realize their desire to become dragons, they put forward unrealistic or difficult requirements for their children only by subjective wishes. Children's learning foundation is neither good nor bad. It is difficult to ask them how many points they must achieve. If they fail to achieve it, they will be punished. Children have no talent or expertise in a certain aspect, but they are forced to work hard on a certain goal, such as learning painting and piano, or they will be treated abnormally, and so on.

5. Pay too much attention to results. In family education, most parents attach great importance to their children's achievements and results. No matter how hard their children work on the road to success, they don't think it is important in their parents' minds. Only the final result can arouse their applause. Parents who pay too much attention to the results will only add too much pressure to their children, which is one of the reasons why most families are caught in educational difficulties.