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How to Cultivate Children's Self-discipline 1 How to Cultivate Children's Self-discipline

1, establish a sense of rules

In today's society, no matter what you do, you must obey the rules. As the saying goes, "You can't make Fiona Fang without rules", which shows the importance of rules. Therefore, parents should establish a sense of rules for their children from an early age, and at the same time help and guide their children to abide by the rules and integrate them into daily life, thus invisibly increasing their self-discipline.

2. Appropriate encouragement

Every progress of children is inseparable from the encouragement and support of parents, so parents can encourage or reward them appropriately. When children develop self-discipline, if the progress is very obvious, they will be full of confidence in themselves and more interested in the formation of this habit.

Step 3 make a timetable

The premise of cultivating children's self-discipline is to let children have the ability to manage and plan time. Parents can help their children make a specific timetable according to their own actual situation, so that children can have their own concept of controlling time and learn to cherish time and use and grasp it effectively.

4. Exercise children's ability to delay satisfaction.

Since most of them are now only-child families, most parents will spoil their children and their requirements will be met. Even some unreasonable demands will not be rejected by parents, which will affect the healthy growth of children. Therefore, parents must pay attention to it, insist on rejecting children's unreasonable demands, and at the same time exercise their children's ability to delay meeting, so that children can realize that harvest is the truth to pay, thus helping children form a sense of self-discipline.

Parents should set a good example.

Parents are children's first teachers, and their words and deeds play a key role in the cultivation of children's good habits. Therefore, parents should first set a correct example for their children, be self-disciplined and let them form a sense of self-discipline.

How to cultivate children's self-discipline II. Cultivate children's early self-discipline ability.

1, the establishment of rule consciousness

Rules are established and refined from daily life. Therefore, in daily life, we should consciously tell our children all kinds of rules, that is, make sense, starting with what children are most familiar with. For example: garbage should be thrown into the trash can, not littered; Look at the traffic lights when crossing the road; You can take your own things, but don't touch other people's things; Drink water from your own cup and wipe your hands with your own towel; Wash your hands before and after meals ... once the rules are established, there can be no exceptions. If you violate them, you will be punished. Children will learn to restrain themselves in order to please their parents and teachers or escape punishment. Self-discipline consciousness is gradually formed in this repeated process.

Of course, in this process, the rules formulated and implemented by teachers and parents should consider the actual needs and understanding of children in content and way, and critically examine the existing rules from the perspective of children, which is conducive to the establishment of children's awareness of rules.

2. Delay the satisfaction of demand and cultivate the ability to resist temptation and desire.

When children are very young, they are totally dependent on their parents' help. When they are hungry and thirsty, they often can't wait to express their demands, cry loudly and express their need for breastfeeding. But after half a year old, parents should explain to their children: the milk has just been made, just wait a minute. Don't think they don't understand. If you listen more, they will understand. When children grow up, especially when they can express their own requirements in words, parents should consciously cultivate them, and don't always satisfy their children's wishes at the first time, so their desires will expand. Let children learn to wait and control their emotions and behaviors.

3. Create a good and positive environment

The material shortage of the environment means that people living in it can't enjoy adequate activities and communication opportunities. If the materials in a classroom are very simple and limited, it is easy for children to conflict with tools and materials in the process of operation; No matter how many rules, no matter how many compulsory collective actions, disciplinary problems are inevitable. Children will try their best to take advantage of loopholes, and teachers will be tired of controlling young children, resulting in two kinds of extreme children: one is obedient children who are obedient to Nuo Nuo and have no opinions, and the other is aggressive and hostile children who can't sit still. Neither of these children is the purpose of our education.

The atmosphere of tolerance, harmony and acceptance is conducive to the development of our good self-awareness and personality; And this kind of good self-awareness and personality will in turn urge them to form a good understanding and behavior of society and communicate with the outside world more actively and confidently.

4. Protect children's sense of shame and guilt.

When a person realizes that he has done something wrong, he will feel guilty, which will make children have a strong desire for self-improvement and self-discipline. Children will consciously check their behavior according to the requirements of adults, which is an important means of self-education. After the child realizes that he has done something wrong, the first thing parents and teachers should do is to help the child recover his sense of shame with appropriate methods. Parents and teachers should pay attention to the legitimate existence of children's guilt and protect their sense of shame. Only in this way can children's sense of self-discipline be generated and strengthened.