Many parents will firmly adopt this method to educate their children, which may hurt their children because they agree that a filial son and daughter are born under strict parents. Can this radical education really make children grow up healthily? The answer is obvious. This may not be what parents want. It can be said that if parents are not strict enough, they will ruin their children's future. Next, we will explain how it will affect children.
1. This defense mechanism will gradually appear in children's psychology.
If parents are too strict, children will rebel against their parents. When children show resistance, it shows that they have formed some kind of defense mechanism in their hearts. Children have this defense mechanism mainly to protect themselves from their parents.
2. Due to the child's inner indifference, the parent-child relationship may gradually fall into crisis.
Children are psychologically fragile in the early stages of growth and need the care of their parents, not severe scolding. If children become indifferent, it is mainly because they can't feel the love and care of their parents. Similarly, this indifference will alienate the feelings between parents and children.
Generally speaking, good family education plays an important role in children's physical and mental health development, and a good family environment will also affect children's future life to some extent. Family education affects all aspects of children, and its success has a very important impact on children's future success. We can see that most successful people have successful family education behind them. Parents who play an important role in family education should understand their importance and mission to their children.