How to educate primary and middle school students about love? 1. What is love? Some people say that love is a pocket. Putting it inside will produce satisfaction; The sense of accomplishment generated by pulling it out. I think love is a feeling. When a person is needed, he can perceive and feel his own value; A child can only feel how great his young life is when he is needed by adults, so he feels a deep love. Love is the most beautiful word in the world. Only by learning to love can we have a peaceful mind, a broad mind, know how to be considerate and caring, and know where the true feelings are. In today's better and better living conditions, love is getting harder and harder to find. Nowadays, the one-way interests in the family make children only know how to accept the love of others, forming a psychological stereotype that everyone serves me. Being in a caring atmosphere for a long time will inevitably strengthen students' self-centeredness, making it difficult for students to transfer their self-centeredness to the social center. Therefore, it is necessary for us to help students learn to care for others from an early age through primary and secondary education, and to improve the level of social behavior such as understanding, comfort, care, humility and dedication. Second, love and education Love is an eternal topic of human beings and the most basic emotion of human beings. In education, love is the soul and life of education. The education of loving children is the key and basic requirement of education. Love needs education, and education also needs love. Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: "Love is a great power. Without love, there is no education ",and the most effective means of education is" education of love ". The education of love is the basic principle and method of school education. From Confucius' "benevolence" to Mozi's "universal love" shows the importance of love, and Mr. Tao Xingzhi's thought of "universal love for the world" further promotes the education of love. Education is not used to cultivate hatred. One of its most important functions is to teach people how to love, learn to love, cherish love, love themselves and love others. I'm afraid there is not much controversy about the importance of love to life. Throughout the ages, many Tessa have been discussing this issue. For example, Tagore once said: Love is a full life, just like a cup full of wine. Shelley once said: once the demand or power of love dies, people will become a living grave, and only one body will survive. However, how to cultivate love among middle school students and how to teach them to love themselves correctly is not a simple matter. It is particularly urgent and important to strengthen the education of love among middle school students who shoulder the heavy responsibility of building the future of the motherland, because it is not only related to the physical and mental health of every educated person, but also to the harmony of our whole society. It can be said that a person who doesn't know love and always lives in hatred is an unhealthy person; Similarly, a society without love is also an unharmonious society. Love should be the proper meaning in the theme of a harmonious society. With the reform and opening up and the development of market economy, new things and new ideas are constantly emerging, and the way of life is changing with each passing day. Now, students quickly accept new ideas, which is an advantage. However, the superior life has also caused some unhealthy phenomena. Especially today, we often hear: "The competition is fierce and the struggle is important". But I think it is an important task for educators to cultivate students' feelings of truth, goodness and beauty and cultivate students' noble sentiments at any time. One of the most important aspects is to teach students how to love and care for others, in their own hearts. Love is sharing, love is strength, love is commitment, and love is glory. Love classmates, parents, the collective, and the motherland. Only by giving and passing "small love" can we gather into "great love" that honors the motherland. Third, how to educate primary and secondary school students about love? For an educator, how to educate students about love correctly and effectively? First, educate students to love their parents. A student should love his parents first, because if he doesn't have deep feelings for the people he loves, and if he doesn't even love his parents who have worked so hard to raise him, how can he love others, the collective and the motherland? In the class, all children are only children. For various reasons, some children are always self-centered and seem to regard themselves as the sun, while other relatives and teachers have become stars around him. They just talk about the "generation gap" and "incomprehension", contradict their parents and even run away from home. They believe that all conflicts with their parents are their parents' responsibilities, and their spiritual contribution to their parents in life is their own. For this phenomenon, I pay attention to starting from small things, so that students can feel the love of their parents. There is a student in our class. When his parents discipline him, he always quarrels with his parents and even threatens them by not studying. His parents are very sad about it. I found this student and told him with reason and emotion, and told his parents what they had gained for him. The next day, he took the initiative to come to me and said that he must study hard and honor the elderly in the future. Seize this opportunity, I organized some activities. For example, children are invited to attend parent-teacher conferences, and some students write letters to their parents to express their feelings. Parents tell their children about their hard work. This made the students shake a lot. They begin to understand and appreciate their parents' hardships and difficulties, talk back to their parents less and help them share their worries more. Judging from parents' feedback, students have experienced their parents' hard work and become more sensible. Seeing the changes of the students, I feel sincerely gratified. Educate students to love their teachers. A grateful student should love his teacher. When students say "good teacher", "hard teacher" and "thank you" to their teachers, these words contain profound moral feelings and show the beautiful feelings when one heart touches another. Therefore, we educate students to say hello when they meet their teachers, which is the minimum performance of respecting teachers. However, many students don't think so. They greeted the teacher coldly, turned a blind eye to the teacher and even contradicted him. How can we change this phenomenon? I found the answer in Suhomlinski's book. He said: "The relationship between teachers and students should be filled with an atmosphere of respecting labor. If you don't respect labor and laborers, you will be lazy and slack, and you will treat material, spiritual and moral wealth rashly. " Therefore, in order for students to respect teachers, they must be aware of the hardships of teachers' labor. One day, before my English class, I went to the class to tell the students that the English teacher was ill. Because of toothache, half of her face is swollen and it is difficult to speak. She is receiving treatment, but in order not to delay her classmates' study, she refuses to take time off. At this time, the English teacher just walked into the classroom and looked at the teacher's swollen face. The students were very moved. After class, my English teacher told me that the students in this class are very active. We know that students show their respect for their teachers by actions. So I guide students to carefully observe the work of Teachers' Day. When they saw that the chemistry teacher used the noon time to make up lessons for the students, and the physics and math teachers worked until dusk, they still marked their homework under the light, and the students were moved. "No pains, no gains", the teacher's selfless love, in exchange for the respect and love of students. During the festival, students will send sentimental letters of condolence and cards with good wishes. They can study hard in class and have warm greetings after class. When the teacher is ill, there will be a chair on the podium and an extra cup of hot water on the desk. Sincere feelings make the relationship between teachers and students more harmonious. Educate students to love their classmates, partners and their own collective. As students, contact is more collective. How to get along with classmates is also their first step into society. Here I tell students to be "kind, enthusiastic, sincere and equal", to make the group better because of my existence, to be good at feeling the people around me, and to be willing to support, encourage and help those in trouble. You can't be indifferent, because that is the blindness of the mind. "Sports Meeting" and "Art Festival" can best arouse students' enthusiasm and enhance the sense of collective honor. It can best reflect the love between students. The athletes on the field strive to win the championship. The students in the first game waved flags and shouted, and took out their own money to buy drinks and bread for the athletes. When some students encounter difficulties, the whole class will lend a helping hand. There are often scenes of love and dedication in the class. Some students wrote in their diaries: "Our class is a united group. We have sincere help in times of difficulty, and we share happiness in times of happiness. I am proud of this group! " When I saw these words, I seemed to see a kind heart through these smiling faces. Educate students to love the world around us and our motherland. Although I lament the changes in the world and feel more distressed by the dark side of society, I will try my best to create a pure and warm space for them, so that they can learn to rejoice in the happiness of others, share their worries for the pain of others, and know how to love the world and love everything in the world. Mountains and rivers let them decorate the world better with a pure and kind heart. Once others or the motherland is in trouble, we should learn to share the pain, share the happiness of love and dedicate ourselves where the motherland needs it most. As long as each of us pays a little love and Qi Xin works together, any difficulty can be overcome! Everyone gives a little love, and our country and our nation will become stronger and stronger. The education of love is a big topic, which needs our sincere efforts. Different people have different practices and different standards of measurement, but the constant is the care for children ... I think that to carry out love education, teachers must first learn to love themselves. It is important to teach by example, but example is more important. With love, you can give people love. Teachers should treat every student with love and loving actions.