Zhou Li is a Confucian classic written by Zhou Gongdan, a famous politician, thinker, writer and strategist in the Western Zhou Dynasty. From today's analysis of its ideological content, it shows that Confucianism developed to the late Warring States period, integrating Taoism, Buddhism and Yin and Yang, which changed greatly from Confucius' thought in the Spring and Autumn Period. Zhou Li is extremely rich in content. The world is as big as Kyushu and has an astronomical calendar; As small as ditches, roads, plants, insects and fish.
The Book of Rites was compiled by Dade, a ritual scientist in the Western Han Dynasty, and his nephew Dai Sheng. Eighty-five pieces of Selected Works of Great Virtue were called "Dai Dai Li Ji", but in the later circulation process, only thirty-nine pieces were left in the Tang Dynasty. Dai Shengxuan's forty-nine articles are the Book of Rites of Little Dai that we saw today.
Basic explanation]
"Three Rites Education" refers to etiquette education, etiquette education and courtesy education. Politeness is a code of conduct for everyone to show respect and friendliness in communication.
Etiquette is etiquette and ceremony. Etiquette is first manifested in manners and appearance.
[Basic Etiquette]
Etiquette includes (1) learning to smile, (2) basic polite expressions, and (3) basic standing posture, sitting posture and walking posture.
Instruments include (1) students' hairstyles (2) students' clothes.
Etiquette includes campus etiquette and off-campus etiquette.
Campus etiquette includes (1) classroom etiquette (including fully preparing and observing classroom discipline before class and etiquette after class) (2) etiquette between teachers and students, (3) etiquette between classmates and (4) etiquette between boys and girls.
Off-campus etiquette also includes morality, love, filial piety and being kind to others.
The ancients said, "If people are rude, they will not stand, if things are rude, they will not succeed, and if countries are rude, they will be uneasy." Without the study, understanding and cognition of social etiquette, one can't stand on the society. The "Three Rites" education with the content of "being polite, knowing etiquette and knowing etiquette" is closely related to the development of teenagers.
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Politeness is a language. Its rules and implementation are mainly learned from observation and the manners of those educated people. -Locke
Educated people can find beautiful meaning in beautiful things. This is because there is hope in these beautiful things. Oscar Wilde
The cultivation of temperament is not for others, but for enhancing one's life ability. Daisaku Ikeda
Politeness comes from the heart and its roots are internal. However, if the form of politeness is abolished, its spirit and essence will disappear. John? hall
Benevolence, kindness and courtesy are to people, and wealth and millet are to home. -Xunzi
All bets are off, modest benefits don't reach out, work all day and strive for self-improvement. -Chen Yi
Without great character, there would be no great people, not even great artists and great actors.
Roman? Long-distance radio navigation system
In a man, wisdom and education are the most important, and beauty is nothing to him! If you don't have education and wisdom in your mind, even if you are a handsome man, you are still worthless. -Chekhov
There is a great yearning in education-longing for beauty and light. It has even greater yearning-yearning for beauty and light to overcome everything. Arnold
Politeness pleases people who are polite, and also pleases people who are treated politely by others.
-Montesquieu
I am convinced that no one has such an amazing influence on people's development than their appearance (rather than their belief in their attractiveness). Leo? tolstoy
An ignorant person always thinks that what he knows is very important and should tell everyone. But an educated person will not easily show off the knowledge in his stomach. He can say a lot, but he thinks there are still many things he can't say well. -Rousseau
People are expensive because they are trustworthy and polite; The reason why the country can be strong is because there is only honesty and righteousness.
-Don Zhang Jiuling
The function or purpose of politeness is only to make the people we talk to feel comfortable and satisfied, nothing else. You should be able to show your respect, concern and kindness to others through proper common etiquette and respect. This is a very high realm, and it is a great skill to be able to do this without being suspected of flattery, hypocrisy or meanness. -Locke
The pursuit of human beings is nothing more than happiness, so polite people are more popular with others than useful people. The ability, sincerity and goodwill of a sincere friend are often difficult to offset the anxiety caused by his serious and solid expression. -Locke
Knowledge must decorate and pave its way in the world with courtesy. Without them, knowledge is like a huge and rough diamond. For curiosity and its essential value, it is good to put it on a tree, but it is more precious after careful consideration. Charlie fell down.
If you want to get an education, "you must know the best things that the whole world is talking about and thinking about."
Arnold
The most important thing in life is politeness, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge.
anonymous
A brave and frank soul can observe with its own eyes, love with its own heart and judge with its own reason. Don't be a shadow, be a man. Roman? Manlan
Don't be extravagant It is better to speak incompletely than to talk too much. Leo? Thor cheated Thailand.
People should not be arrogant, but not arrogant. -Xu Beihong
If the clothes are not correct, the guests will not be rude. -Guan Zhong
If you don't advance, you will retreat. -Guan Zhong
The essence of cultivation, like human character, ultimately boils down to moral sentiment.
Emerson
It is not difficult for a well-meaning person to express his courtesy to others. -Rousseau
To help the weak, a person should become strong on his own, not as weak as they are. If you like, don't be lenient with what they have done. Never let down your guard against the bad things they are going to do. Roman? Long-distance radio navigation system
Let one get a hundred, and fight for ten and lose nine. Mark
Humility is the color of virtue. -Diogenes
The book of the ceremony, in case of chaos. -Liu Zongyuan
Virtue is more difficult to obtain than secular wisdom; It is difficult for young people who have lost virtue to recover. Cowardice, incompetence and ignorance of the world are attributed to the fault of private school education. In fact, this is not the inevitable result of home education, nor is it an incurable disease. If overindulgence at home often makes people weak and incompetent, we should try our best to avoid it, mainly because our purpose is virtue.
-Locke
Politeness is mainly a manifestation of self-discipline. Emerson
This conventional elegance is mediocre and inferior. Hugo
Their communication is also based on Tao, and meeting each other is also a ceremony. -Mencius
Poor without arrogance, rich without arrogance. -Zigong
Nobody likes the original stone, and it's not good to wear it. But once the mosaic is polished, the healer will give birth to brilliance. Virtues are a kind of spiritual wealth, but what makes them shine is good manners. -Locke
A proud man is bound to be jealous. He is jealous of the person who is praised most for virtue.
-Spinoza,
This is the advantage of simple personality: if this personality sometimes makes people do very clumsy things, if this personality will almost certainly destroy the person who owns it in the upper class, then on the other hand, this personality has a rapid and decisive influence on people with similar personality. Stendhal
A patient person can get what he expects. Franklin
In terms of etiquette, as in all things, the only constant is thought. A kind-hearted person is simple and simple. -Balzac
When a person is a real person, he should keep an equal distance from boasting and arrogance, neither boasting nor trying to impress others. Hugo
For a kind person, the idea that paying the price is bound to be rewarded is an insult in itself. Virtue is not an ornament, but the embodiment of a beautiful mind. -Gide
Proud, eager, happy, old. -Wei Wei
Career often becomes perseverance and is destroyed by impatience. I have seen it with my own eyes in the desert, and the travelers who are in a hurry fall behind those who are calm; Mercedes-Benz horses are behind, but the slow camels are advancing. Sadie
Music changes customs and manners change people. -Don? Wu Jing
There is an inner courtesy. It is love that has changed its form. Therefore, an external courtesy is the most appropriate. -Goethe
Etiquette is noble only if it is natural. If it is too artificial on the surface, it will lose its due value.
bacon
If conceit, vanity or anger make a child lose his terror, or make him not listen to the advice of terror, we should use appropriate methods to eliminate this kind of psychology, let him think a little, reduce his anger, think twice before you act, and see if the present thing is worth taking risks. -Locke
All manners are set up to decorate false stories, insincere welcome and disloyal hospitality; If there is true friendship, we should abandon these hypocritical forms.
-Shakespeare
You shouldn't be jealous of genius any more than you should be jealous of the sun. Yuri? Bondalev
A person in his right mind will not be complacent. -Saint-Simon
The simplest element of moral education is "love", that is, children's love for their mothers and positive love for people. The foundation of this moral education for children should be at home. Children's love for their mothers is based on their love for their babies and the satisfaction of their physical growth needs. To further consolidate and develop this factor, school education is needed. Teachers should also have father-son love for their children and integrate the school into the big family.
-Pestalozzi
We should not think too well of ourselves, so that we overestimate our value; Don't think that you should have an advantage in front of others just because you have some advantages and others don't; Within the scope of our duties, we should accept what others give us with an open mind. -Locke
His talk is always approachable, which not only conceals his ignorance of some things, but also shows his good manners and tolerance. -Tolstoy
Jealousy is a shameful emotion and people should trust it. Leo? tolstoy
Generosity, especially modesty, will win people's favor. -Goethe
When people are depressed, they first use the word forbearance, and then use the word forgetfulness. This is the decoction of harmonizing qi. -Tao Jue
A gentleman can't stand what others can't stand, tolerate what others can't stand and deal with what others can't handle. -Manan
Etiquette is a subtle thing, which is not only indispensable for interpersonal communication, but also can't be too concerned. If you put etiquette above everything else, you will lose sincere trust between people. Therefore, in language communication, we should be good at finding a sense of proportion and be straightforward and not rude. This is the hardest and the best.
bacon
Treating others with courtesy means treating others as you like them to treat you. Charles Defarge
It is very wrong to let a child have confidence, gain some skills in getting along with others, and sacrifice his innocence to let him associate with those uneducated and evil children. The main purpose of resolute and independent character is to maintain his virtue. Boys have the opportunity to communicate with others, and nothing can't be learned calmly, as long as there is enough time. -Locke
Non-etiquette words, self-destruction, my body can not be benevolent, is self-destruction.
If we don't control our habits, when we are young and energetic, it won't show its influence immediately. But it gradually consumes this energy. When we get old, we have to settle our accounts and pay off the debts that led to our bankruptcy.
Tagore
For a gifted person, knowing how to treat others equally is the greatest and truest quality.
Richard? Stier
I would like to compare genius with virtue, knowledge with wealth. For example, people with less virtue need more wealth, while people with less talent need more knowledge. Younger
The so-called good upbringing ... they are different in almost all countries and even in one region; Every wise man will imitate the good upbringing of his place and keep up with it.
Chesterfield
In an uneducated person, courage will become rude, knowledge will become pedantic, wit will become funny, simplicity will become rude, gentleness will become flattering. -Locke
Another content of family education is to cultivate children's obedience, which can make children have the desire to grow up. On the other hand, if you don't pay attention to cultivating children's obedience, he will become abrupt and arrogant. -Hegel
Politeness is safe, rudeness is dangerous. -"Notes"
There will always be some painful and happy things, willing and unwilling, knowing and not knowing, awake and confused. But if you have religious feelings in your heart, you will also find peace in pain. Otherwise, you can only work in anger, jealousy, hatred and nagging. Tagore
Cultivation comes first, knowledge comes second, and practice comes second. Ju Hee Song
Etiquette, also known as education, is nothing more than not showing any contempt or insult to anyone in communication. Whoever can understand and accept this, agree to the above-mentioned rules and norms, and strive to implement them, will certainly become an educated gentleman. -Locke
A clumsy argument or ordinary observation, if put forward in this way, can gain more honor and attention if you add a few words of respect for other people's opinions in front. -Anonymous
Young people should not interrupt in the middle, but speak in an advisory manner, instead of lecturing others. Avoid stubborn attitudes and arrogant expressions and ask questions with an open mind. Humility will not hide their talents, nor will it weaken their rational power. On the contrary, they can get better attention and make what they say acceptable. -Locke
Rigid and gloomy people are the worst people in the world, regardless of appearance and clothing. Dickens
Devotion is not an end, but a means, and it is a means to achieve the highest cultivation through the purest peace of mind.
-Goethe
Father and son are related, monarch and minister are friends, husband and wife are different, young and old are orderly, and friends have letters. -Mencius
Be an open and honest person, whether in deep-seated ideological activities or in external behavior. -Undset
Be kind to people who have love. -maeterlinck
Self-esteem is the mother of progress and inferiority is the source of degeneration, so self-esteem and inferiority are indispensable.
-Zou Taofen
Exquisite elegance is an innate advantage of a simple man, which makes his speech more intriguing, no less than the bishop's rhetoric. -Balzac
"Good example, sincere language and sincere and frank sympathy" refers to the influence of parents, teachers, classmates and others' demonstrations on children. -Comenius
Great people will never abuse their advantages. They see that they are superior to others and realize it. However, they will never be modest. The better they are, the more they realize their own shortcomings. -Rousseau
People with a little knowledge are not modest, and those who are well-informed and capable must be modest. -Xie Xueya
The benevolent loves others, the courteous respects others, loves others, and people always love them; People who respect others will always respect others.
Monk
Humility and obedience make them more suitable for teaching; So you don't have to pay too much attention to developing self-confidence in advance. Spend time, energy and effort, and the most important thing is to let them acquire the principles of virtue, practice and good education. This is what they should prepare in advance so as not to lose it easily in the future. -Locke
The most important thing in life is politeness, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge.
Aleksandr Herzen
A rude nature makes a person rude to others, so he doesn't know the tendency, temperament or status of respecting others. This is a true sign of a village that despises Ye Fu. He doesn't value anything that can make people get along with him gently and make him respect others and get along with others. -Locke
Education is getting used to being satisfied with the best things and knowing why. Van Dyke
Ceremony is also a matter of the body. -"Taiping Magnolia"
Praise with words and things, use warnings, reprimands, punishments and corporal punishment for special and individual faults, and use an enlightening punishment system, that is, "with a frank attitude and a sincere purpose", so that children can understand that this is good for them, just like taking medicine to cure diseases. -Comenius
Etiquette is reason. -Zhu
Accepting suggestions is to improve one's ability. -Goethe
Expensive but not arrogant, winning without contradiction, virtuous but able to descend, just and able to endure. -Zhuge Liang
My main way is, first of all, to develop children's initial ability through their initial feeling of living together, so that children can feel like brothers and melt the whole group into a simple spirit of a big family; And on this basis, and the resulting emotions, stimulate their general sense of obligation and morality. -Pestalozzi
Arrogant and rude. -"Mandarin"
I strictly abide by a beautiful rule in my daily life: "People are expensive and have self-knowledge." I always use this to push myself. Angel
Be generous in serving others, dedicate yourself, be generous in self-blame, and be thin in self-blame. -Ming? Kun Lv
Honesty, like all our emotions, should be divided into positive and negative categories. Negative honesty is honesty when there is no chance to get rich. Positive honesty is seduced every day.
-Balzac
It is disrespectful not to respect others. -"Old Tang Book"
Despise or lack due respect. This can be expressed by calmness, words or beauty.
-Locke
Criticizing others and finding faults with others are directly opposite to etiquette. No matter what mistakes people have made, they should publicly announce them in broad daylight in front of others. Anyone with a stain will be ashamed. Once the shortcomings are discovered, he will always feel a little uneasy, even if he is only suspected of having shortcomings. -Locke
No one, no matter how knowledgeable, can be regarded as an educated person as long as there is a distance between his ice question and his life. Powys
Moral behavior training is not influenced by language, but allows children to practice good moral behavior and overcome lazy, reckless, sloppy, decadent and other bad behaviors. -Comenius
People know that you live happily and give up courtesy, but they still want to live long and choke. -Xunzi
Politeness costs nothing, but it gets everything. Richard Montague
Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind. Mao Zedong
As long as a person has the patience to cultivate in culture, he will never be arrogant or uneducated.
-Horace
A life as clean as water, honest character, no matter which class, even the worst mind will respect it. In Paris, true morality is appreciated as a big diamond or a rare treasure. -Balzac
Ceremony, so the body also; Teacher, so courtesy also. -Xunzi
Conceit is the enemy of progress. -Bio
Never be proud. Because of pride, you will be stubborn when you should agree, because of pride, you will refuse other people's advice and friendship. -Pavlov
Arrange children's daily life reasonably, so that they are always busy with useful things and avoid making much ado about nothing or wasting time.
-Comenius
The purpose of cultural accomplishment is to enhance and improve the ability to appreciate the truth, goodness and beauty of the noblest and most profound things. Powys
A wordless criticism and accusation of the other party's rudeness, and this sarcasm makes everyone feel uneasy. -Locke
A person's courtesy is a mirror that reflects his portrait. -Goethe
A generous person, his love is often more than resentment, he is optimistic, cheerful, open-minded and patient, without sadness, depression, anxiety and anger; He comforts his partner, relatives and friends with love, explains with reason and emotion, and makes the listener tempted, admired and respected, so that there will be no emotional estrangement, action opposition and psychological resentment between them. Munir? Nasuf
People are polite, fish have water. -Ge Hong
Anyone who can be welcomed by everyone, his movements are not only powerful, but also elegant and solid, which is not enough, even useful and useless. No matter what happens, he must have elegant methods and attitudes in order to look beautiful and be liked by others. -Locke
We can tolerate the habits we are used to, and we blame the newly discovered habits. -Sailors cheat.
We must be strong-willed, diligent, explore, discover and never give up, cherish the beauty that has arrived on our way forward, endure the evil inside and around us, and make up our minds to eliminate it. -Huxley
Some people, especially children, often show the shy attitude of village customs in front of strangers or elders, and their thoughts, words and expressions are all flustered; I have lost my master in disorder, and I can't do anything, at least it looks unnatural and elegant, and I can't get people's joy and welcome. The only way to cure this disease is the same as other diseases. Let them form the opposite habit through practice, mainly by making more friends. -Locke
Be kind to others and be close as brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers. -Guan Zhong
Discover the advantages of others and discover your own shortcomings. Franklin
True modesty is the highest virtue and the mother of all virtues. -Tennyson
In your past life, the people you hurt have long forgotten, but the people you hurt will never forget you. He will never remember your merits, only your injuries.
Dale? Carnegie
Interruption and argument are not in line with the requirements of etiquette. Interrupting others' conversation is one of the biggest offenses, because we reply before we know what others will say. If it is not reckless and stupid, it clearly means that he is tired of listening to what the other party is saying and doesn't want to continue. -Locke
Power and wealth, even virtue itself, are valued by everyone because they can improve our happiness. Anyone who helps others with a bad attitude and makes others feel uneasy will not be welcomed from the perspective of others' happiness. Anyone who knows how to make the other person feel comfortable, but does not condescend and belittle himself, can be said to have got the real knack of dealing with the world, and will be welcomed and valued everywhere. Therefore, politeness is the first important habit that children and young people should pay special attention to. -Locke
Therefore, we must be suspicious, hesitant, different and distinguish between right and wrong. -Jason Wu
Modesty is not a virtue; Being healthy is a virtue, and it is also a virtue to admit that what is lower than us is higher than us. -Goethe
What ennobles people is their character. Lawrence
Self-esteem, self-consciousness and self-control can lead to the lofty realm of life. -Tennyson
Don't think you know everything at any time. No matter how high others think of you, you should always have the courage to say to yourself, "I am a person who knows nothing." -Pavlov
The heritage of educated people is more valuable than the wealth of ignorant people. -Park Jung-soo
Once they enter the society and associate with people, on the one hand, they can certainly increase their knowledge and self-confidence, and at the same time, they can easily lose their virtue; Therefore, they have to prepare for virtue in advance so that it can be deeply fixed on them. -Locke
A person should be lively and disciplined, naive but not naive, brave and reckless, stubborn and principled, enthusiastic but not impulsive, optimistic but not blind. Marx
Ancient children can respect and support their elders, but they should hold their hands with both hands, ask them, and cover their mouths. A little disrespect from the beggars' sect is disloyal, so the godson should be serene and respectful first. -Zhang Zai
Virtue is an angel, but it is a blind angel. We must ask "knowledge" to show it the way to its destination. Horace? graceful
Only the modesty of bamboo, the tenacity of cowhide tendon and the enthusiasm of fire can produce truly immortal art. -Mao Dun
Mice have skin, but people have no tools; People who have no manners are immortal. -The Book of Songs
A person should have lofty ideals as well as noble sentiments. Without noble sentiments, no great ideal can be realized. mould
Etiquette is too complicated, and it is stupid and shameful to insist on imposing excessive etiquette that others can't stand. This situation seems to be laughing at others, rather than respecting others. -Locke
No manners can make people see the lack of education at a glance. The correct education lies in making people's external courtesy and noble education show at the same time. -Goethe
The pinnacle of a good education is being ready to help others. anonymous
If you don't have to be polite, you can't do it for long. -Yang Jiong
No matter where people go, they are all the same, and they should bear it, instead of sticking to their own opinions and fighting against society unnecessarily. As long as you are at ease, just go your own way. To make people truly educated, they must have three qualities; Profound knowledge, thinking habits and noble sentiments. Chernyshevski
Do we deliberately make ourselves look ridiculous in society, or are we too vain to steal happiness from people's malice? Others are afraid of this kind of malice, and it is we who have caused their jealousy. Stendhal
We don't despise all people who have bad habits, but we despise people who have no virtue at all. anonymous
I have a clear conscience and a good appearance. I don't want to make a profit or get rich. Make the past serve the present. I want to turn over a new leaf. Why worry about the compromise of the world? -Ji Kang
If you can't improve your taste through cultivation, the word cultivation is meaningless.
Powys
Courtesy is reciprocated, and it is not indecent to go; It is impolite to come instead of going. -Book of Rites
Even the most profound speech, if a person is rude, arrogant or noisy, even if he wins the debate, it is difficult to leave a good impression on others. -Locke
A person should have good manners to highlight his unique nature. Everyone likes to get ahead, but this should not cause others' disgust. -Goethe
Intellectual education can only be an aid to moral education, and learning can only be an aid to morality. For a kind-hearted person, learning is helpful to both morality and wisdom. For those who are not kind, learning will make them worse. -Locke
Politeness to people is like wine. -Confucius
I would rather be a wild flower under the hedge than a favored rose. I'd rather be despised by everyone than kiss up to others' hearts. -Shakespeare
Self-respect, people respect it; Slow is slow. -Zhu
Modesty is an indispensable virtue. -Montesquieu
Morality and talent are assets far superior to wealth. Fallen offspring can corrupt your noble family and the property of the rich, but morality and talent can make a mortal an immortal god. -Shakespeare
The ceremony of the people is not yet, although it is easy to get together. -Feng Menglong
The use of ceremony is precious in harmony. -The Analects of Confucius
All the morals that people preach, the morals of family and society, are beautiful only when they lose their egoism, and only when they sacrifice their sacred thoughts for their excessively humane relatives-good children or good spouses! Roman? Long-distance radio navigation system
Moral character should be noble; In life, you should be honest, disciplined and polite. -Montesquieu
What is rude to the people, but not to take money? Nai'an Shi
Cultivation is as important to the heart as food is to the body. -Cicero
All kinds of whitewash and eloquence are nothing more than indifference to words with strong beliefs. Stendhal
There are two kinds of impoliteness: the first is anxiety and shyness. The second is imprudence and neglect. In order to avoid these two situations, we must abide by the following rules: don't look down on ourselves and others.
-Locke
Politeness is like people's clothes, neither too wide nor too tight. anonymous