When children are young, parents raise them, take care of their food, clothing, housing and transportation, and cultivate their children to develop good living habits. When the children are older, parents are really cultured. This kind of education is not a simple warning, but a subtle guidance.
When many parents send their children to school, they all want their children to enter a school and class with a good atmosphere, and they all want to have an excellent class teacher, and it is best to have a deskmate with excellent academic performance. But I have never thought about creating a harmonious and relaxed family atmosphere for my children, and I have never thought about whether I am an excellent parent. Children are not clay dolls. Don't try to shape them, but attract their interest, guide and drive them to learn actively and seek development.
It is often seen that some parents begin to plan their new study and work after sending their children to kindergarten or a higher school, devote more time and energy to themselves, strive to improve themselves and set an example for their children. This is very wise. Otherwise, when the child grows up, parents will still focus on personal life, which will make the child feel bound, too depressed and prone to rebellious psychology.
Of course, parents can't ignore their children while investing in themselves. We should accompany them to grow up together, make progress together, and be bosom friends in the growth of children. "If you have a heart, you can't open it." Investing in yourself and being a better person is a good way of education.
Education is not only teaching by example, but also setting an example. Parents' hard-working, kind-hearted, meticulous and dedicated morality and habits all inspire children invisibly. The result of investing in yourself is to achieve yourself and lead your children.