Listening and understanding: Keep open and respectful communication with children and listen to their thoughts, feelings and concerns. Try to understand their views and challenges instead of criticizing or blaming them easily.
Explore the reasons: try to understand the reasons why children are tired of learning or rebellious. There may be many reasons, such as learning difficulties, social problems, family pressure and so on. Knowing the root of the problem can help you find a better solution.
Establish a positive learning environment: create an environment that supports learning and provide appropriate learning resources and tools. Ensure that children have a quiet, tidy and orderly study space and encourage them to establish good study habits.
Find interests and goals: help children find their hobbies and goals. Encourage them to pursue subjects or activities that interest them, and provide support and opportunities for them to develop their interests.
Make clear rules and expectations: Work with children to make clear rules and expectations, including study time, task completion and responsibilities. Make sure the rules are fair and reasonable, and set achievable goals for children.
Provide support and consultation: provide academic support and consultation for children. You may need to seek the help of a tutor or a professional tutor to fill the gaps in knowledge and skills in your study.
Emphasize the importance of learning: share the importance of learning with children and its influence on the future. Help them understand that learning is for their own growth and development, and for realizing their goals and dreams.
Establish a good family atmosphere: create a positive, supportive and warm family atmosphere. Maintain a good parent-child relationship and encourage communication and understanding among family members.
Seek professional help: If the child's rebellious and school-weary behavior is serious and continues to affect his daily life, he may need to seek professional psychological counseling or therapist's help. Professionals can provide more specific guidance and support.
Give care and support: No matter what difficulties children encounter in their studies, it is very important to give care and support. Let them know that you care about them and are willing to help them overcome difficulties.
It is important to establish a good relationship with children and find a solution that suits them. Respect their feelings and opinions, provide support and guidance, and help them overcome the dilemma of rebellion and weariness of learning.