With the continuous improvement of material life, many new educational problems have emerged in our education, among which the education of children's suffering is a new problem in our education. Whenever I bring up this question, people around me say that my thinking is a bit redundant. Yes, our material life has just changed. If our children suffer from our parents, there is no point in improving our life.
With this question, I sometimes think about it, but no matter how great changes have taken place in our material life, I think the education of suffering can not be ignored. As an educator and a father's responsibility, I still want to talk about children's hardship education, which is a problem that must be solved in our education.
Why educate children to suffer?
In the education of children, all aspects of education should be involved, among which suffering education is one aspect, which will have the most direct impact on children's will education. As you may know, the object of our education is people, and people are the most complicated animals. Therefore, in education, only by adopting the most effective educational methods can our education play its inherent strength. Speaking of this question, it reminds me of our parents. Among our parents, we all went through hardships. Because of this, they know the hardships of every grain from the bottom of their hearts, so they advocate frugal education in our education.
Cultivating children's hardship education can consciously cultivate children's hardship spirit.
This is one of my topics about suffering education. Among our children today, our children are really much smarter, but why give up when encountering problems? Especially when they encounter failure, they appear very fragile, doubt themselves and even dare not face it. In fact, this is the lack of our current education, that is to say, in the process of cultivating children's personality, there is a lack of hardship education, so their will lacks experience in this field. In other words, in the process of educating children, consciously educating children to suffer hardships is the' experience process' of their spirit of suffering hardships.
In today's life, our material life is better than in the past, which we can't doubt. However, in the process of our children's growth, we should learn to cultivate their correct spirit of suffering, so as to cultivate their ability to face difficulties and meet the challenges of sudden changes in life, and to cultivate their ability to face competition without fear of hardship.
The education of cultivating children's hardship is to gradually cultivate their ability to challenge themselves.
With the continuous improvement of our material life, people's competitive pressure is becoming more and more obvious. Therefore, there is an urgent problem in education, which is to let us human beings learn to compete in today's rapid development of science and technology. This should be one of the responsibilities of education. The experience of educating our children about suffering is actually the self-cultivation of their ability to adapt to challenges. Competition is cruel, it will not sympathize with the weak, in its life, there is always room to dare to challenge. This is the case in today's society and it will be the same in the future. As educators, our education for children is actually an education for future challenges. Therefore, it is the wish of every parent to create better living conditions for children and let them live and study better. However, we can't ignore their experience of hard struggle just because we create superior living conditions for them. I think this is the most confusing point for our parents today, and it is easy to confuse superior life with cultivating children's spirit of suffering.
The education of cultivating children's hardship spirit is the process of letting children experience gratitude education.
In our education, our expectation of education, whether our parents or our society, we all hope that education will pay off. But our current education makes us educated people not grateful. Why is there such an educational phenomenon? This can't put the blame on our children. Our education should have a great responsibility. Among them, the lack of education on children's suffering is one of the most direct factors that affect our gratitude education. In the training of children's hardship education, it is the process of letting children learn about the fruits of labor. When our children receive such education, our children's understanding of things will experience the process of material value and material context from the heart, so that our children can feel the process of educational gratitude.
The education of cultivating children's hardship is to let children know the education of being a man.
In the process of educating children, we are actually educating children as adults. And our suffering education is just a kind of life education for children. In other words, when our children learn to suffer hardships, they will truly appreciate the hardships of their parents, cherish their lives more, consciously work hard to live and study, be grateful to their parents, and make contributions to society. Perhaps this is the most basic education in our life education, but it is not a simple process to know this. Our suffering education is only a process of experiencing life education!
To sum up, in the face of today's highly competitive education process, we should do a good job in children's hardship education, which is of great help to their growth. We can't ignore it, nor can we underestimate it. Blind affection and love for children in material matters will directly affect their life!