Establish a good parent-child relationship and deeply understand the child's heart.

Many parents are always condescending in front of their children. As adults, parents often like to measure a child's words and deeds and every move by adult standards. After a long time, children will naturally have the psychology of rejection. It is difficult for parents and children who have been getting along in this mode for a long time to establish a good parent-child relationship, let alone understand the child's heart.

The saddest thing about educating children is that they won't listen to anything you say. In order to help children correct their bad temper, the first thing parents should do is to put a low profile and learn to get along with their children like friends. When you stand at the same height as your child, the child will be willing to listen to your opinions and guidance, so that you have the opportunity to deeply understand your child's inner world.

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Give angry children enough time to calm down.

When many parents are angry, children usually observe and whisper. When parents' emotions calm down, children will explain to their parents why they have made mistakes or been naughty. As parents, why can't we change our perspective? When the child is angry, we can let the child calm down for a while before dealing with it!

When children are angry, if parents don't "take the lead" and talk to each other, it will only make your parent-child relationship more tense. As parents, we should learn to retreat from difficulties and advance despite difficulties. First, give the child enough time to calm down, and then patiently communicate with the child to guide. I'm sure your children will listen to you.

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Learn to divert children's attention

If the child is in a grumpy state, but the parents are infected by the child's bad temper, instead of trying to calm the child's anger, they yell at the child angrily, so the child is bound to become more and more unreasonable. For example, a child wants to buy a toy, but parents feel that there is already a similar toy at home and there is no need to buy it again. If the child cries at this time, the parents will be furious, and the child may lie on the ground and roll bigger and bigger.

In the face of such children, parents are advised to divert their attention. For example, we can tell children that there is a fun children's playground not far ahead, or there is an interesting painting competition.

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Let the more prestigious people in the family come to town.

Daughters are sometimes taken back to their hometown by grandparents to play. She often likes to coquetry in front of her grandmother, but she doesn't listen to any coaxing. At this time, as long as grandma asks grandpa to come forward and grandpa says a word or two, the child will obey. A family, in front of a person whose children like to be spoiled and naughty, shows that this person is more tolerant of all the children's daily behaviors, so it gives the children a chance to be spoiled and naughty. In the process of children's unreasonable troubles, if there are more authoritative and principled people in the family who come to town, the children will inevitably submit.

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The combination of rewards and punishments is really important.

Some parents are especially good at punishing their children when they make mistakes; However, when children make progress, parents take it for granted and cannot get any reward or encouragement. In the process of children's growth, there should be not only criticism, scolding and punishment, but also appropriate, concrete and timely encouragement and praise. Sometimes children are grumpy, not because they want to be unreasonable, but because their efforts are not recognized by their parents and they show a kind of resistance. Therefore, to educate children, we must know how to use rewards and punishments.

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Lead by example and be an accommodating parent.

If parents are grumpy, then children will inevitably be influenced by them. Parents are children's first and most important teachers. Every move, word and deed of parents are examples for children to imitate. If parents can't lead by example and be easy-going people, then even if you try your best to educate your children, they may not make any progress or change. Setting an example is the first priority. Parents must understand these simple and effective truths!

There are no children born with bad temper. There are many reasons for a child's bad temper, including whether family members live in harmony. For the healthy growth of children, as parents, it is necessary for us to create a warm and loving family environment for our children!

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