1, don't let children get involved in sex too early.
After entering adolescence, it is very normal for both boys and girls to have sexual impulses. However, it is too early to have sex at this age. First, they are not mature enough to be responsible for their actions. Second, premature sexual behavior will delay the growth and development of children and even bring some diseases. However, you can pay attention to some words, don't be too rigid, and don't say them in a commanding tone. Let the children understand the importance of this matter through friends and chats.
2, how to contraception
Although sometimes parents can guarantee their children to have sex prematurely, in case of sexual abuse, teaching children effective contraceptive methods can minimize the harm to their children. If there are girls at home, we must teach them to respect themselves, not to provoke malicious people, to handle things calmly, not to conflict with others, and to run away immediately if something goes wrong. Some parents will bring condoms. Strange as it may seem, it's all well-intentioned.
Step 3 respect feelings
After entering adolescence, it is normal for some children to have a good impression on the opposite sex. Some children will fall in love early, and parents should guide them well, instead of killing them with a stick and forcibly separating them. We should respect their feelings, understand them slowly with emotion, tell them that the most important thing at present is their studies, and let them reach an agreement and continue their careers after they are admitted to the university. Children in this period just want their parents to treat them as adults. If they are arrogant and autocratic blindly, they will have a very strong rebellious mentality.
4. Guide them to understand nocturnal emission and menstruation.
After entering adolescence, boys and girls are mature, boys begin to have nocturnal emission, and girls begin to have menstruation. One thing that bothers them is masturbation. Desire is reasonable, but you can't indulge in it. Parents should guide them appropriately and tell them why they have nocturnal emission, why girls have menstruation, why they have sexual desire, and why masturbation is a normal thing. Some children are very regretful and anxious after masturbation, which affects their normal study and life. Parents should pay special attention to this and do more guidance.
5. Teach them to get along with the opposite sex.
When children are young, they don't have a clear concept of gender. Boys and girls play together, but after puberty, many children will be very sensitive and have a lot of troubles when interacting with the opposite sex. Parents should pay attention to guidance and teach them how to get along with the opposite sex, so as not to hurt each other's friendship and break the shackles and become immature love. Both boys and girls should pay attention to the boundaries of getting along with the opposite sex, protect themselves and respect each other.
Adolescent sex education is a headache for every parent, for fear that their problems in sex education will affect their children. These are all aspects that parents should pay attention to when doing sex education. If you are really not sure, it is always right to study more.