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The head teacher is the direct implementer of student management, the educator of students' ideology and politics and the leader of students' healthy growth. As the head teacher, teachers organize class management democratically, treat students equally, and reward and punish every student fairly, because only fairness and equality can the head teacher have cohesion in the class and win the recognition of students. A good education is bound to combine leniency with severity, with clear rewards and punishments; Of course, sometimes criticism may be more severe.
As the subject said, you may be furious in front of everyone in the classroom. There may be two reasons for the teacher to do this: first, your mistakes seriously violate the school spirit and discipline and challenge the teacher's psychological bottom line; One is to make an example of you. Your mistake is typical. Many students have similar situations, but your performance is the most outstanding, so you can only say that you won the prize.
It certainly doesn't feel good to be criticized, but on the other hand, criticizing you also gives you a chance to improve. Criticizing in public shows that the teacher is furious with your mistake and also shows the seriousness of your problem. If you make mistakes, you will be a good student. Next, you should cheer up, bid farewell to the past, forget the unbearable past and be a good student who abides by discipline again. Everyone learns from mistakes, and students themselves grow up by making mistakes. After this, you should grow up and gain valuable experience. From now on, you should learn from yourself.
And more importantly, you should know that the teacher criticizes you, which also shows your position in the teacher's mind. Teachers don't get angry and criticize people for no reason, which means that teachers think you can still do well and you can change. If you are really a person who won't change, then the teacher won't criticize you anymore. Remember, my child, that you are not afraid of being criticized by the teacher, and you are afraid that the teacher will ignore you. Being criticized by teachers is also a kind of happiness.
However, a responsible teacher will never give up any student. Criticizing you hopes his students will have a bright future, so please don't complain that the teacher is strict with you, but should be deeply grateful to the strict teacher.
Criticism is a kind of strictness, and criticism itself is a kind of love, but many people don't really understand it. Son, those who dare to criticize your teacher are the noble people in life. Being criticized by teachers is also a kind of happiness. The head teacher is facing the whole class, so it should be common to criticize the students in public. Generally, it is a way to teach and warn other students by criticizing someone. Unless the mistake made by this student only involves one or two people and belongs to personal privacy, the class teacher will not criticize it in public. If the head teacher criticizes you, and the reason for criticizing you is sufficient, without too sharp words and violence, I think you can guide yourself from the following aspects.
1. Try not to contradict the teacher in class. This will be very bad, because you are all angry and the teacher needs to continue to get along with you. If you contradict or speak improperly, the teacher will lose face, and the final result will definitely be bad for you, because you are at fault first.
You can accept the teacher's criticism with an open mind. If time permits, you can admit your mistake on the spot, which will immediately calm the teacher's mood and enlighten other students with problems. In this way, the teacher's educational purpose will be achieved, and your affairs will come to an end with the ringing of the bell. And the teacher will look at you with new eyes and think you are sensible and obedient.
If the teacher wronged you and you feel wronged, you can go to his office after class and explain the situation to several familiar classmates. Pay attention to sincere tone and correct attitude. Don't be impulsive, ask the teacher loudly. When the teacher knows the truth, he will apologize to you. And I will find an opportunity to clarify for you in front of the whole class, and the students with you will also tell the truth and clear your name.
Therefore, as students, especially children, with poor self-control, they will inevitably make mistakes and be criticized by teachers. There is no need to be so entangled, if there is, they will change.
First of all, we should know that the class teacher's criticism of students is not only related to maintaining the class spirit and discipline of the whole class, but not to you alone.
As an employee of the school, the head teacher should complete the work of managing and teaching the class and all kinds of assessment work required by the school. Besides, the head teacher, as an ordinary person, has to face the necessities of secular life, so most head teachers and teachers have no energy and leisure to specifically consider targeting a certain student.
If it is really aimed at you, I will always remind you and correct you, hoping you can be better. Well, congratulations. That's your special concern and love. You should be grateful and grateful.
Secondly, don't feel ashamed to be criticized by the class teacher in public. Nobody sees it that way.
It is natural for teachers to criticize students. For teachers, there is nothing to say, and criticism will pass; For other students, they were also "tied up" and received education together. Later, they were all busy with their studies. Who has leisure to think about your criticism and your loss of face?
Finally, don't talk back and contradict the teacher in public for the sake of face. You want face, but the teacher doesn't want face? Don't outsmart yourself. It was a small matter. A sentence or two was criticized and reminded by the class teacher. Because of confronting the teacher in public, the contradiction intensified and transformed. In the end, it may turn into a big event that alarms the moral education department and asks parents to go to school to solve it. Why bother?
That's really the teacher's criticism and injustice. What should I do?
Don't contradict the teacher in public, but explain it to the teacher in private. Under normal circumstances, most teachers are frank and honest people, and will directly "make peace" with you and shake hands to make peace; Occasionally, if you meet a good-looking teacher who refuses to admit her mistake, she (he) will also remember this matter and your grievance, and remember that you have no reason to refute it in public, so that her affection for you will increase in the future and she will not criticize you easily without making an investigation.
Do you think so?
Being criticized by the class teacher in public can be divided into two situations: one is occasionally criticized by all beings; Second, it is often criticized in public. If you are occasionally criticized in public, you just need to face it correctly and correct your mistakes. If you are often criticized by the teacher in public, it means that you are a student who often makes mischief and mistakes. Teachers generally don't criticize students in public for several reasons: First, the mistakes you made are representative, and criticizing you for educating other students is like "killing the chicken to show the monkey". Second, you often make mistakes and never change your mind. The teacher deliberately criticized you in public, hurting your face and stimulating you. I hope you can correct your mistakes. Third, the teacher doesn't like you and deliberately criticizes you in public. This situation is unlikely. The problem you need to solve now is how to face the teacher's criticism in public, but how to face the teacher's criticism means that you should first consider how to correct your shortcomings and mistakes, so that the teacher will not criticize you, that is, the teacher will not have the opportunity to criticize you in public. As for the mentality, we should take the attitude of changing it if we have it, and encouraging it if we don't.
First of all, we should realize that the criticism of the class teacher is a manifestation of being responsible and strict to the students. If we realize this, the following questions will be easy to understand.
Secondly, the subjects may object to "being in public". Here I want to explain it from two aspects. First, the reason why we can't accept public criticism may be that the criticized students lose face in front of everyone. However, a class teacher faces dozens of students and has teaching tasks every day. If students make mistakes and criticize them separately, the workload of the class teacher will increase exponentially. Everyone's energy is limited, and the class teacher is also a person. Therefore, if we criticize each student who makes mistakes individually, we can take care of the students' emotions. However, the time and energy devoted to more other students will inevitably decrease. Isn't this irresponsible to most students? Second, if the criticized students have the right mentality and clearly know that they are criticized by the teacher because of their own mistakes. Such criticism can not only warn the criticized students, but also inform other students to avoid making the same mistake again. In addition, for criticizing this matter. Personally, I don't think it is necessary to struggle whether to criticize in public, but to sum up in the criticism. No matter in public or in private, mistakes must be criticized. Then improve yourself, try not to make mistakes, avoid being criticized and improve yourself.
Secondly, because it is a public criticism, I feel that as a class teacher, I should also be measured. At least that's what I do when I criticize students in public. Grasping this scale is not only a criticism of students who have made mistakes, but also an excessive language. You let the students who made mistakes realize and reflect on their own mistakes, and also warn other students not to make mistakes again. The head teacher should pay more attention to his emotions. Although the things of the class teacher are trivial and complicated, we must not bring the fidgety mood to the students' correction. Put facts, be reasonable, and be emotionally stable. Such criticism, I think, can be accepted and understood by students even in public.
To sum up, we should have an objective and rational understanding of the class teacher's criticism of students. Never take it one-sidedly, only analyze the right and wrong of one side. Otherwise, it will only make the problem more acute
My humble opinion, please forgive my shortcomings!
Pay attention to me and give you more educational advice.
What kind of mentality do you have in the face of the class teacher's public criticism? I think it is better to face the class teacher's public criticism with a good attitude. Because if it is your personal fault, the head teacher will let you go to the office to criticize you individually, but because many students in your class have different degrees of problems and you are representative, they will publicly criticize you in the whole class, so that everyone can be inspired by education. Even if you think there is something wrong with criticizing you, you should face it with the attitude of correcting your mistakes and encouraging them, which shows that you are a good student who studies hard and makes progress every day.
Hello! From the way you ask this question, you can see that your subconscious has accepted the fact that the class teacher criticized you in public. Since you are willing to accept it, you should ask questions to show that you are unwilling to accept it, so your heart is still contradictory-probably because of the dignity of the head teacher and you can't bear to embarrass yourself! Don't accept sorry for the teacher, accept sorry for yourself.
What would I do if it were me?
First, out of politeness, you must accept the fact that you have been criticized and listen to the class teacher carefully.
In this case, we first need to control our emotions and put our face aside. Listen carefully to the criticism of the class teacher and reflect on the exact problems that exist. Anyway, let the class teacher finish the matter first.
Second, communicate privately and explain the situation.
When the head teacher returns to the office, we can communicate with the teacher actively. After all, the criticism of the class teacher more or less contains concern for you. Private communication can not only show that you are a child who can correct mistakes, but also safeguard the moral dignity of teachers. I left a bad impression on my teacher because of my mistakes, but your initiative can set up a new image for yourself. Why not do it?
I don't agree with this teacher's practice.
I used to be a class teacher and always used this sentence to remind myself: praise is carried out in public and criticism is carried out in private. Through long-term practice, it is found that only when teachers and students talk on an equal footing can students accept your criticism more easily. The ultimate goal of criticism is to help and guide students, so our teachers should carry out it on the premise of protecting students' self-esteem. Only in this way can the students be convinced.
Therefore, when you deal with this matter, you can try to deal with it with such a mentality: accept criticism-communicate problems-admit mistakes-be understood. When things happen, we should concentrate on finding a solution to the problem, rather than obsessing about who is right or wrong. If you insist on distinguishing right from wrong, you will make another mistake.
First, the head teacher shouldn't criticize you for no reason, should he? It must be because of your own shortcomings that you will be criticized, so you should maintain a good attitude and have backbone at this time. "You will never let the class teacher criticize you for the second time."
Second, everyone is criticized sometimes. These criticisms will turn into jokes when you grow up. Why did you do it yourself? So don't think too much and study hard, because the days of high school are really gone forever.
I hope I can help you.
No matter whether the teacher's criticism is right or wrong, as a student, the first thing to do is to respect the teacher, the second is to listen to the teacher's words and accept the teacher's criticism sincerely, and the last is to politely apologize to the teacher and thank him for his teaching. If you have any ideas, after waiting for the teacher's criticism, find time to communicate with the teacher modestly in private, eliminate misunderstandings and increase mutual trust and friendship.