Teenagers receive school education, social education and family education, in which school education plays a leading role and family education is a solid backing foundation. Rational education generally means that parents can educate and guide their children with correct moral concepts, right and wrong concepts and educational methods, instead of indulging and indulging blindly or reprimanding and beating. Rational education helps to protect children's mental health and develop good character; It can also form a warm and harmonious family atmosphere, so that children can learn and grow in a loving environment.
How do parents conduct rational education? I think there are the following aspects:
First of all, parents should give their children expectation and tolerance. Loving children is the premise of rational education, and parents should put forward reasonable expectations and set appropriate goals for their children. In the face of children's problems, as parents, we should give priority to tolerance, supplemented by strict answers, be soft and firm, calmly discuss the reasons with our children, and put forward strict requirements and constructive opinions and methods.
Second, parents should adopt scientific evaluation to make it the mainstream culture of the family. Let children get more recognition, appreciation and encouragement under the scientific evaluation of parents, and establish a positive family culture. In this way, children can look at the world and others with a more inclusive eye, and they will grow up more smoothly and healthily.
Third, parents should adhere to the principle of gradual progress, don't control their children too much, follow the pace and direction of their children's growth, and give them more room and time to grow up.
Finally, parents themselves should adjust their mentality, learn to control their emotions and establish the concept of lifelong learning. The anger of parents can only expose incompetence and inferiority, and then lose the trust and respect of children. At the same time, parents should constantly update their knowledge and take lifelong learning as an example to guide their children to keep improving.
Generally speaking, rational education requires parents to expect and tolerate their children, make a scientific evaluation of their children, adjust their mentality step by step, constantly improve themselves and update their knowledge.