Parents have worked hard to bring up their children, and then repay their kindness when the children grow up. This concept of inheritance from generation to generation makes the responsibility between parents and children more clear. But no matter which era, there are some people who don't play cards according to common sense. People who need help are such people. Parents raise their children because they are young and have no ability to be self-sufficient. The people who need help are a group of adults who are too dependent on their parents. There is an aunt who is over 60 years old, but she still has to raise her son who is married in her thirties. Although the son is wrong, there may be some problems in the mother's education. If she doesn't let go, the child won't grow up by herself and depend on her parents forever.

First, the psychological deformity of the neet people. Needy people naturally ask their parents for money because they are mentally abnormal and think that their parents should be responsible for them to the end. These people are very selfish, too dependent on their parents and refuse to make any efforts. In the eyes of neets, any job is very tiring, so they don't want to go out to work and live on the support of their parents.

Second, it is related to parents' education. Children will become neets, not only their own psychology and personality, but also their parents' education. Some parents spoil their children too much, thinking that they can resist everything for their children when they are young. Pave the way for children and create all conditions. By the time they find out, the children are already too dependent on their parents and their character has been developed.

Third, if parents don't let go, children will never grow up. Parents' incorrect educational concepts make it difficult to cultivate qualified children. In the process of children's growth, if parents don't let go, children will not grow up. In today's family, the formation of many giant babies has a lot to do with parents. Parents' love for their children is far-reaching. In addition to considering the present, it is more important to consider the future of children and cultivate their independence.