Mothers are relatively more patient than fathers and pay more attention to the details of children's training. Helping children with their homework is a hard job. No father with five big and three thick can sit down quietly. When the child is full of mistakes, I am really worried that my father can't control the power of the wild in his body. The arduous task of tutoring homework is still the most suitable for my mother.
Why do family education mostly point to women? It is true that family education mostly points to women, especially mothers, but it is different from the former because of different family status. Psychologically, it is generally believed that mothers are the most important influencing factors for children's early growth. The reason for this is the following：
1. Children's symbiotic psychology
At first, the baby didn't know that he had formed two independent individuals with his mother. He thought he and his mother were still in the womb, so he lived with her. In this period, the mother was regarded as an extension of her body by her children to some extent, and carried out his will. This has caused children to rely heavily on their mothers in infancy.
2. Get rid of symbiotic psychology
The child is growing up. Before the age of 3, they need to be psychologically separated from their mothers, that is, they need to recognize and accept that they and their mothers are two independent individuals. At this age, they need to rely on their mothers to gain confidence in exploring the world, internalize their mother's image and form their initial independent self. In other words, children know the world through their mothers and themselves through their mothers before the age of 3.
The above only points out some factors that family education mostly points to women, but "pointing to women" does not mean that men (mostly fathers) can stand by and watch, or throw all their children to their mothers before they are three years old, and put the responsibility of parenting entirely on their mothers.