The content of this drama is classic because it contains workplace rules, the way of husband and wife, the way of education and so on. Every time I read it, I feel that I am still unfinished and can't fully taste the connotation.

The clip I saw this time is

Ming Lan asked two underage girls, Rong Jie (the daughter of an official Gu) and Xian Jie (the daughter of Gu's brother, who has passed away and has become the head of the family) to look after books at home.

In this clip, I also learned about the communication between parents and children, and how Ming Lan educates children. I think it is necessary to share Ming Lan's love.

Because you can't play the video, you can watch the end of episode 60 if you are interested.

First, the dimension of thinking. Looking at this clip, what can we think about?

Second, the specific analysis of each dimension.

First, thinking dimension.

1, Person: Why did Ming Lan call two children instead of 1 children?

2. Reason: Why did Ming Lan let her two daughters read these books? There is a bookkeeper at home.

3. Process: What is the process of letting children read books?

4. Communication: What is the way of communication between Ming Lan and his children?

5. Quality: What qualities did Ming Lan exercise for children through interaction and reading?

Second, the specific analysis

1, Person: Why does Ming Lan call two children instead of 1?

First, a bowl of water is flat, and their children and eldest brother have equal educational rights. Only when they are in charge can they have authority, and people can't say anything.

Second, in group study, children are more motivated to persist and will not be bored.

Third, when you have questions, you can discuss them in groups, which is conducive to teamwork.

Fourth, she understands that a big family will lose everything, and all children can depend on each other. If there are only 1 promising children, the others are the drag of promising children, which is not conducive to the overall development of the family.

2. Reason: Why are the two little girls reading? Mr. accountant is at home again.

First, housekeeping is a necessary skill for a daughter's family. Exercise from an early age and hone in years of practice. The sooner you start, the better.

Second, you should be professional. If you don't understand, you will easily be deceived by the following people, and you will not be able to manage your family well.

3. What is the educational process in Ming Lan: from the beginning to the end of the video?

Let the children see for themselves first-group discussion-you can ask unknown questions-don't assume that there are inferences to prove-it is difficult for you to find a way to prove it-and come back to answer after you get the real evidence.

This is a typical quality education, coaching management, fully mobilizing students' enthusiasm and ability, not cramming education.

4. Communication mode: The communication mode between Minglan and the children in the video.

Ask questions-guide-find your own answers-don't give answers directly.

5. Quality: What qualities have children exercised by reading books?

1) independent thinking: two children ask their opinions and let one child comment on the other's answers; By guiding questions, let yourself think independently, rather than giving answers directly.

2) Objective verification: reduce subjective assumptions and seek truth from facts. Many contradictions in the world are caused by subjective speculation. No matter whether you have questions about people or things, you should put facts and take real evidence.

3) Resilience and flexibility: Because there is no verification, it is a setback for them to continue verification. They have never been sure that they have done a good job, and have exercised their indomitable character, so that they should not give up halfway because they are not good at verification; Let them find their own way to prove it. This is the sense of purpose and flexibility. If you want to achieve your goal, one method can't work, and you must know how to change another method.

4) Cooperation spirit: It is best to talk with partners and work together as a team, so as to provide a reference for them to make decisions when they grow up, so that they will not go their own way, but will listen to various suggestions and have a good result more easily.

5) Be an example: how to be a master and a mother, and let them know how to be a master and how to do things when they get married in the future.

This clip also has a special idea.

Rong Er found that buying rice was getting more expensive every year, and concluded that there was a ghost in it.

Fairy is like a picture.

We can think in three dimensions.

1. Parent-child relationship: If you don't be a helicopter parent, your child will have no space at all, feel stared at, your child's motivation and initiative will not be stimulated, and passive learning achievements will not be brought into play.

2. Self-reflection: If something goes wrong, you should first review your words and deeds, whether they are wrong or harsh.

3. the way of management: grasping the big and letting go of the small is one of the first things; Second, to maintain the balance of management, you should not let your subordinates be too greedy, implying that you know it. Don't turn a blind eye too much, and don't be too harsh to make people feel helpless and hopeful. Handle small things harmoniously and maintain the golden mean.

Let's share it here today.

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