? Let's take a look at the side effects of too strict education.
1. Timid and depressed when unable to resist, especially rebellious when able to resist. Many parents love to say, alas, my children are particularly good in primary school, but they are particularly disobedient in middle school. Let me say one thing, children should be in the top ten. Back to this sentence, when children go to primary school, they either have a particularly strict mother or a particularly strict primary school class teacher.
? 2. Form a hypocritical, split and two-faced personality. The teacher is so strict that students dare not resist and have to obey, but obedience is not their own intention, so they have to face one thing and another behind it. In the long run, people will become hypocritical. Self-observation, who feels divided and others are observing, is a two-faced person.
? 3. More indulgence after the suppression is lifted. The Japanese we see in the film and television works are always polite, but in the war of aggression against China, many Japanese soldiers behaved worse than animals. Why does the Japanese nation behave differently from others in War and Peace? I once read an article by a sociologist who studied Japanese culture. One of the reasons mentioned is probably that there are too many national rules and regulations in Japan, so everyone in Japan leads a depressed life. When there are strict external rules and regulations, they will succumb to their own will. Once unbound and unsupervised, their moral sense will collapse, thus indulging their desires and amplifying their animality.
? If the primary school head teacher is too strict, fails to teach students to respect and abide by the system, and blindly leads the class in a controlled way, the potential risk is very great. This super-controlled class mode has good class order and obedient students, but it will bring endless trouble to the follow-up management. In order to stabilize these students, the class teacher can only escalate violently. Otherwise, the class discipline is lax, which will eventually lead to the collapse of the whole class.
? Violent class management does more harm than good, and the successor class teacher can't take the old road again. But my parents quit! Parents think that the new head teacher is not strict enough to keep the students in line. Teacher Ren also has an opinion: students' classroom discipline is not good! At this time, the successor teacher has no word of mouth, no mass base, and the class has become uncontrollable. What should I do?
? 1. Parents and teachers should pay attention to their opinions. Since children are used to "violent law enforcement", you should let them eat first, and the taste should change slowly and unconsciously. That is to say, the original class teacher has any requirements, but the tone can be mild. It turns out that the class teacher can also copy the punishment to the students who violate the discipline, but don't hit people. As long as you keep the bottom line of "don't curse or hit people", why not?
? 2. Hold a parent-teacher meeting to introduce your own class teaching philosophy, inform parents of the dangers of violent class management, and strive for parents' understanding. But no matter how understanding parents are, what they want to see most is the progress of their children. Therefore, the child has not made progress, and no matter what the class teacher says, parents will give a discount. Therefore, to take over as a class teacher, we should pay attention to students' behavior habits and academic achievements, and at least stabilize a large number of students in order to stick to our original educational intention. The head teacher can let parents know their children's expectations of the new head teacher through the parent-teacher meeting, so as to improve in time.
? 3. Be strong on the track and introduce classroom discipline. The fourth grade baby is naughty, but not rebellious. The airborne class teacher is strong in the class, and they won't be too resistant. Therefore, the successor class teacher must quickly introduce classroom discipline before the students come to their senses. Don't have too much discipline in class, as long as you can control the small movements and random reading of students' novels. Generally speaking, 3 ~ 5 classroom disciplines are enough. Students are required to memorize, and teachers are also required to constantly check. It is not enough to observe discipline, but also need supporting discipline regulations. How to punish? You can cancel students' extracurricular activities, you can also advise parents to cancel students' welfare, you can also ask them to clean the campus or toilet, and if it is serious, you need to invite parents to come to school to cooperate with education. In short, any punishment can make students pay for their mistakes, but it will not harm their health and humiliate their personality.
? No matter how gentle and democratic the class teacher is, when the children in front of you don't know how to cherish tenderness and what democracy is, they can't just be gentle and democratic, but also need strict self-discipline.
? 4. Properly and firmly promote class management. When the class is on the right track, that is, the students are not noisy and the parents have no opinions, the subjects are satisfied. Only the successor class teacher who insists on moderate and democratic class management can show his talents. First, use the class meeting class to tell students the harm of "violent class management" and the charm of "being gentle". Of course, we should also explain to students what "democracy" is. Students can't experience a gentle and beautiful feeling, how can they expect this thing? I have no idea what democracy is. How can I accept it? Second, the successor class teacher should adhere to the "gentle and firm" educational principle, no matter how not to honor it. The educational concept you follow can only be implemented by yourself!
? The focus of management is best placed in the classroom, recess, assembly and homework! In any case, these four positions must not be lost! Even if you use force occasionally, you must control the situation. Otherwise, the class will be chaotic, the grades will drop, parents will have opinions, and the head teacher is not human inside and outside.
? 5. Grasp the typical, tree class style. The former class teacher was very strict and the students didn't resist, which shows that the students in this class are still very docile on the whole. Why is the head teacher suddenly confused when he changes? A complete collapse is impossible. There must be a leader. As long as the leader is caught out and business is business-like, other students who are eager to try but stay put can be deterred. At the same time, the class teacher has also set up a positive person who is "strict but not demanding, soft but not weak", and the class atmosphere will be healthy.
? Finally, I would like to sincerely remind all colleagues who love education not to believe that "completely self-disciplined" children can be cultivated in a short time, which is too scarce. The reason why the human world will not produce "completely self-disciplined" children is because the complexity of human nature far exceeds our imagination. Regardless of evaluation or self-evaluation, Mr. Zhong is a super self-disciplined person. In fact, I am sometimes influenced by other forces! For example, I once spent more than 20 days chasing a Xian Xia play because I couldn't stand the temptation of others. According to my usual writing habits, I can write an article at least two days, not to mention the night shift, but I haven't written an article or read a book in the past twenty days with the drama!