Xiaowen's mother is a typical example. Many precious mothers work hard during the day and take care of their children at night, so they are very different from those before giving birth. They don't dress themselves up, don't care about their image, and even dress sloppily. Maybe the treasure moms think it has nothing to do with it, but it will make the children hold their heads in front of classmates and friends, and they will become inferior after a long time.

2. Mothers obsessed with dead ends

Some treasure moms compare their works and like to gain a sense of existence by doing. They often quarrel with their husbands because of trivial matters, regardless of the occasion, but ignore the children's feelings. When the mother does this, the child's heart is nothing but shame, and the child feels ashamed and gradually feels inferior.

3, nagging mother

Almost every treasure mother likes to nag, but some treasure mothers nag in the hope that their children can become better, and some treasure mothers nag to vent negative energy, spread pessimism to children and dump emotional garbage on them. Such children are generally passive and fragile, and at the same time they will become more and more selfish.

4. Shouting mother

If Ma Bao often loses his temper and gives vent to his feelings regardless of others' feelings, it will not only arouse Bao's disgust, but also make the children afraid of their mothers and the family is not harmonious. Children who grow up in a disharmonious family atmosphere are mostly sensitive and inferior, and their mothers' "words and deeds" will also make them selfish and disregard the feelings of others.

5. Neglect the child's mother

When a child encounters some thorny questions to ask his mother, the mother responds to the child with the words "I am busy" and "play by myself", which will make the child feel abandoned and bored, which is not conducive to the child's self-confidence. Children's inferiority and selfishness are all formed in the later stage, and most of them are due to their parents' education. What should parents do to make their children develop healthily and comprehensively?

Finally, it is suggested that parents should accept their children's advantages and disadvantages, communicate with them more and teach them to face things optimistically.