First of all, there is a conceptual error in this problem. Why do women have to cook for men at home honestly, but also take the children to do housework? Now entering a new era, those feudal thoughts that unreasonably imprison people are no longer desirable! It is not that traditional ideas have changed, but that we should retain some traditional virtues of positive energy and eliminate some feudal fallacies.

In the old society, women could not read. They wrapped their feet and learned to sew from an early age. When I grow up, I accept my parents' orders and marry a man who has no emotional foundation. In that patriarchal era, the fat man regarded you as a treasure, and when he gave birth to a girl, he had to endure the unfair treatment of his husband's family.

At that time, people's thoughts were like this. Even if you accept the new trend of thought, the culture will be suppressed into another kind, as if men were born to support their families, men are out-and-out, and women just do laundry and cook. Having one's own opinions is dismissed as "women's opinions", and doing some hobbies is regarded as "doing nothing". However, with the arrival of the new era, these feudal ideas have been abandoned, women's status has improved, and they have the right to speak and are protected by law.

In today's society, as long as you have hands and feet, you can support yourself by finding a job casually. In addition, the popularity of education has enabled many people to receive higher education. Now there are a large number of doctoral students with high academic qualifications and smart minds. Whether you work for others or start your own business, you can have a wonderful life!

The career struggle mentioned here is not for you to be a strong woman at the expense of your family. Work or work, just don't work too hard. If you don't have time, you can ask a nanny or ask your parents to take care of you. You can spend more time with your children, spend time with them regularly, and take them and their families to travel regularly. As long as you are not a workaholic, you can take care of your family and career.

I'll tell you something, the true story of a friend. That friend has worked in a big company for more than six years. He is an old employee with good salary and benefits. My husband is developing in Jiangsu, and plans to buy a second house there, so that she can quit her job to be a full-time nanny, do laundry, cook and take care of the children.

Her mother advised her not to resign, saying that women should have their own jobs and earn money on their own, and they can often bring their children and their husbands together if they are not diligent, but she loves her husband very much, so she resigned and followed him. After a long time, my husband began to be male chauvinist. Although he didn't say it clearly, there is always such a meaning in his words: you don't work now because I earn money to support you.