1, not used to, not leaving.
I don't know why, some people are strict with their children, but their grandchildren are particularly tolerant, and generally speaking, at least 8 elderly people in 10 will separate.
Some old people even think like this: "I am not his parents. What is more real between me and him? " ? He will naturally have education for his parents. I just need to make sure he's well fed and warm and doesn't get sick. "
2. Have enough knowledge and skills to keep pace with the times.
Nowadays, many grandparents have not received a good education, and even if they want to teach their children well, they don't have the ability. Even if they are capable, the education methods and concepts of the older generation are inevitably outdated.
3. It can be a bridge between children and parents.
Even if grandparents teach well, parents are still the guides of their children's lives. How to promote a good parent-child relationship, grandparents and grandparents can get twice the result with half the effort as long as the methods are proper.
But few elderly people (including those in western countries) can do the above three points, which may be one of the important reasons why foreigners are parents taking care of their children.
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