I came to Mingzhishu Summer Camp in rural Changsha with an absorption mentality and a whole set of questions. In my last school, my cognition was greatly improved, but I always felt more and more painful. So the summer camp of Mingzhishu brought me a glimmer of light. I think, under the leadership of first-class teachers and active classmates, I can change myself smoothly and break through my original self.

Here, I have changed.

When I come here, my greatest wish is not to learn many new courses and things, but to be able to interact with value partners and ask Mr. Zhong and Mr. Hou some questions that have been bothering me since the Ming Dynasty. Here, the students welcome the arrival of new students very much, which gives me the opportunity to become one of them soon. The teacher gives me many courses and private conversations. My question has been answered and my way of thinking has changed greatly.

1, solve the phobia of choice. We used to go rafting in the Grand Canyon. Because we need to pay more than 100 yuan ourselves, I am very entangled. The day before, I had chosen to go rafting. At this time, I began to struggle. Is it better to experience or spend less and invest in the future? So I changed my mind and said not to go with the flow. Later, two people went rafting and needed body double, so I joined again.

It's the same when I eat. Sometimes I hit the middle of the meal and found it was a little too much, so I filled it back. Every time I cook, I always cook a little. After eating, I did it again and again.

I think this is caused by my struggle, so I asked the teacher, hoping to find a solution. The teacher's answer is simpler than I thought, that is, find your real goal. If you follow the goal, you won't have a phobia of choice.

2. The meaning of life. What is my real goal? I once said that I would go to South America to start a business in the future. This is indeed my goal, but it is not clear, so I don't seem to have any sense of crisis now. Because of this, my Excellence in new education seems to be declining. Then, I suddenly found that I was confused.

The first class in summer camp is life planning. What is the meaning of life? I have never thought about this problem carefully before. After this lesson and comparing the analysis of four philosophers, we come to the conclusion that the meaning of life is given by ourselves.

Before finding my own meaning in life, I can follow the three things summarized by Shan Chang: physical and mental health (self-cultivation), family happiness (family harmony) and successful career (governing the country and making the world peaceful). To do this, we need sincerity.

What faith? I didn't keep it in mind in class. But as the summer camp went on, the teacher repeatedly stressed that it finally changed me. They implanted a new belief in all of us, a belief that can be used for a lifetime:

2. The concept of life investment. Throughout the summer camp, the most important inspiration given by the teacher is to think about our own life investment, that is, every day's life is our greatest value, so we should make the greatest investment in this respect.

In other words, because material resources are abundant now, the most valuable thing for us is our spiritual resources, which can be invested through time. Material frugality is not that important.

I am a thrifty and wasteful person. Thrift means that I don't like spending money, whether it's spending money or using goods. For example, I usually only use a roll of paper, a bar of soap and a tube of toothpaste a year. There are some leftovers on the plate. I will scrape them all clean, and sometimes I will pick up what I think is wasted on the ground or even in the trash can to eat.

This time, it is more reflected in the book of Mingzhi. This is the same drift. In the car, I asked the teacher if it was worth buying an hour of water wandering. The teacher analyzed this problem from the perspective of life investment: if you just experience drifting, the teacher thinks it is not worth it. But from the perspective of team activities, knowing that drifting is a meaningful activity can narrow the distance between people, and the money is well spent.

This changed my previous idea that money can only be exchanged for material things. If we think about it from another angle, money can buy spiritual property, such as time, friendship, brain enrichment and self-growth, then we don't need to spend so little money in these places at all, because the more cost-effective the business, the better, and the less is stingy, not frugal.

It is my time that is wasted. Take eating as an example. I may spend two hours a day eating, either scraping dishes or eating in various ways. I spend a lot of time doing other things, such as improving my ability, helping others to do operations and so on. I spent it on eating. The same is true for others, such as going to the toilet and hanging clothes. I know it's a waste of time, but I just haven't changed it further.

In this regard, I feel very confused and confused. So I went to ask the teacher. After the teacher's guidance, I realized that this is because I have different views on the value of everything. In terms of food, I am willing to spend two hours on it, because I think eating and saving food are very important. It is also because I don't know that there is something more important than eating, so I spend my time eating. The principle is the same as that of people who sleep late.

Next, under the guidance of the teacher, I changed my mind: eating is not the most important thing, so I don't need to waste too much time on it. The most important thing is the following beliefs:

3. The belief of the operator. Throughout the summer camp, the teacher advocated that we should be an operator: in the Oriental Wisdom class, the teacher gave us a careful analysis of being an operator, which can get a lot of blessings and even accumulate merits in reincarnation. Since then, the teacher has been telling us the benefits and importance of being an operator (what I want to do before I die).

More often, teachers will appreciate students as operators. For example, the teacher kept mentioning Yang Jiyuan's "seventy good trips a day", Sun Yuyao and Liu Yukang helped the people around him to fetch water, and Li Junlou always brought his clothes back before it rained. It doesn't take much time and energy to do these things, but because it is serving others, it will win the respect of people around you.

When I was in Shu, I was very willing to do an operation at the beginning, helping everyone to do some public welfare things and reminding students of the areas that need improvement. Later, I found that I seemed to be developing in the direction of consumers, but there I still felt that I had done a lot of things around my career.

However, no matter how I think I am an operator, I still feel that my life is not very full and my life is not particularly happy. So, I began to feel very confused.

At Mingzhishu Summer Camp, I found myself too arrogant when I heard so many students actively and enthusiastically serving around and making the school my home. I was a stranger here at first, so I had an excuse. But later, I should have regarded myself as a member here, but I still felt that I was not an important person in the summer camp, and I realized the problem.

I am touched by the teacher's constant influence on our beliefs. I realized why I didn't feel full and happy because I didn't do a good job in operation. I am willing to help people and things around me every day, even if I am not found and praised by the teacher.

4. Lack of interpersonal relationships. We had a class on gender relations. In this class, we have a deeper understanding of the horror of women. What impressed me most was that the heroine in The Lost Girl almost killed her husband and fiance and finally took control of the whole family.

Therefore, if you don't plan your feelings, you will never be happy. And this is only part of the interpersonal relationship. What bothers me is that interpersonal relationship is one of my shortcomings. I haven't made many friends this semester, which seems a bit exclusive.

I asked the teacher the question that bothered me. The teacher's solution is to think about the handling of interpersonal relationships from another angle. This woke me up. In the past, the main way for me to communicate was to ask the other person some questions that he might be interested in.

But the teacher told me that this way is too monotonous. I have many ways to make friends and get along with people: I try to initiate interaction by myself, such as sports, chess, reading and chatting (note that chatting is just one of them); Participate in the interaction of other organizations; Do something for others.

This reminds me of some movies: a person directly makes friends with another person, and he agrees. I found that interpersonal communication is not a dead thing, but there are many ways out. The problem is that I dare not do it.

5, nerd, move! Why can't I? Because I tend to be perfectionist. This is one of the reasons why I am obsessed with choosing phobia. In this way, when I want to make a breakthrough, such as operators, interpersonal relationships, life investment, there will be a lot of distractions, especially tangled. Therefore, I don't have the courage to do these things, because I don't think I am perfect. In this way, I have been regretting and getting more and more painful.

This is one of the main problems I want to change when I come to summer camp. Even if I asked the teacher how to solve my problem of eating, I still didn't change my habit of eating stingy. I asked the teacher how to solve my mobility problem.

The teacher criticized me: you are a bookworm! Don't think about it, just do it. Once you start doing things, you have no time to think. You just read foolishly. I was hit like never before. I really think too much and do too little, which makes me like daydreaming. Although I can write a wonderful summary (such as this one), have I really changed myself? There seems to be not much. I was really in tears at that time.

6. I am now. When the summer camp drew to a close, I began to think clearly: If this summer camp is meaningful, I must change it. Although my old habits have brought me a lot of resistance, I still try to make some changes.

I try to do things around business, such as greeting my classmates, smiling, and sometimes sharing my knowledge and ideas with my classmates. I tried to make a breakthrough in interpersonal relationships, such as playing chess with Cao Zeyao, learning Rubik's Cube, and even making friends with horses in the legendary "one sentence" way. I also try to change some of my behaviors, such as eating.

However, I haven't made much progress in this respect. I know this is the biggest problem, but I hate to change it. Maybe it's because I pay too much attention to this convenience. However, I believe that even if the problem changes slowly after the belief really changes, it can eventually disappear. What I have to do now is to really do things with the concept of life investment.

Looking back on this 2 1 day, I once thought that this summer camp was not very good and it was a waste of money. Now it seems that my thoughts at that time were excusable-I had a perfectionist tendency and saw better possibilities, so I was not satisfied with the original result.

From now on, I think every experience I have is worthwhile. Although I didn't get much new knowledge and my problems were not solved by the teacher, I still realized a lot.

I have seen Mr. Zhong and Mr. Hou, and I really admire them. A really good teacher is approachable. Talking to him is like talking to your own parents. You won't feel nervous or disrespectful. However, he won't take away your responsibility. All the problems were solved by ourselves, and the teacher just asked us to rethink from another angle. He is also very knowledgeable and can help us analyze problems from a very objective and high angle. His ability to act, work and think is still very strong, and he is willing to share it. Only in this way can we win the respect of all our classmates.

I have met a group of diligent students, represented by Li Junlou, Sun Yuyao and Feng Yuetong. After only one semester's study, their thoughts have changed a lot. Now there are some qualities I need to learn. They like to pay for their surroundings, take on more responsibilities, have strong execution, and communicate with people around them without violence, so they are respected by other students (including me).

What shocked me most was the free and positive atmosphere here. Everyone is actively studying, doing homework, discussing and doing activities. Every student is willing to give and share his skills. After class, every student is very active, which is in contrast with the atmosphere of Ming Xue Shu. I think such an open and free atmosphere can not be separated from two points: First, the upward control of teachers. Usually, many things here are relaxed, but electronic products are very strict. As soon as class is over, we must leave the classroom and go out for activities. The teacher strongly encourages everyone to do business and share their own specialties. This makes Mingzhishu form a mutually beneficial interactive atmosphere. Second, students create the environment. Because all the students have their own real goal-to be admitted to a first-class university in three years, they will cooperate with each other very attentively to create such a positive atmosphere.

To sum up, the most important thing I learned in this summer camp is heart. "One cloud drives another cloud, and one heart shakes another." The teachers and classmates here touched the hearts of all the freshmen, including me, and made everyone very eager to improve and miss this place very much. I think if I want to be a respected person, I must have my own mobility, ability to do things and courage to deal with interpersonal relationships. To do this, the most important thing is that I should work hard and have a full heart. With this heart, I will really live a full and happy life.

Future planning: Going home in summer vacation is not a place for me to relax. I realized it when I was at school, but I haven't made progress yet. I will continue to realize it when I get home. The first is my execution, ability to do things and interpersonal relationship. So I usually need to strictly arrange my daily plan, and the most important thing is to control electronic products and not stay up late-my two biggest implementation problems in the past.

At the same time, besides studying, I will also do some social practice, such as setting up a stall. Because the teacher once said that I learned too much and did too little. So I can improve my work ability, interpersonal relationship and so on by setting up stalls.

I also need to share what I learned in Heming school and summer camp with our families, and even try to change the family atmosphere and be more aggressive.

Most importantly, if I encounter problems that I can't control in these places, I need to be corrected through the family atmosphere, otherwise I will experience a meaningless summer vacation again.

Special thanks:

Team leaders such as Li Junlou, Sun Yuyao and Zhang Runjie set a good example for me as a manager by not dragging their feet, taking responsibility and not complaining, and changing others' anger.

Yang Jiyuan, Feng Yuetong and other students inspired me through their own growth and tried to drive me, such as teaching Zhong Mingda Weiqi.

Ma, Cao Zeyao and others have many friendly interactions with me, sharing some of their knowledge with me and becoming friends.

Zeng Zhirou, She and others often communicate with me actively, which makes me feel that someone has stood with me from the beginning.

Fan Xinrui, Yuan Yongya and others did a good job by themselves, such as running and eating, which inspired me to make continuous progress.

I have great interpersonal barriers with Xia Ye and always oppose me, which makes me learn some ways to get along with inferior people: ignore him and maintain basic respect.

Other students share their majors, communicate with each other, grow and contribute to each other, and run Zhi Ming School.

Grandparents provide us with rich and hot meals every day (hehe).

Mr. Zhong and Mr. Hou continue to pay for this school, teach for us, adjust our values through conversations and activities, and create an energy field for the free growth of Mingzhishu.

My parents silently supported my choice in Lu 'an and invested a lot of money they earned day by day.

Thank you! Thanks to Shu! I am Shu's student!