1, the independence of high school children has increased, and they will have their own ideas about many things. When communicating with them, we must respect their ideas and treat them as adults. We should also tolerate their opposition, don't force them to accept the opinions of adults, and wait for the opportunity to guide their behavior even when children make mistakes and have not fully realized where they are wrong. Only in this way can there be effective communication, and effective communication should also be careful not to have too strong a purpose. You can express your views on some problems in your child's growth in casual communication. At this time, even if the child objects, it is actually only a manifestation of self-protection.

2, can cultivate children's interest in learning: (1), play the role of parents. Practice is better than precept. Parents' love for learning is the greatest encouragement. Children who grow up in an environment with a strong learning atmosphere often have a strong interest in learning. Parents and children study together. Children who have just entered school have poor self-discipline, so parents can spend more time with them, pay more attention to their children's studies, understand their homework and help correct their mistakes in time. (2) strive to improve children's grades. Improving children's grades is the most important and effective way to cultivate children's interest in learning. Parents should strive to improve their children's academic performance, even in a certain subject. Friends who have used speed reading memory training know that it is very helpful for children's attention, memory, reading ability and thinking. Detailed learning materials can be downloaded from the website of the whole brain speed reading and memory of Jingying. (3) Stimulate children's interest in learning from one of their specialties. Every child has advantages. Parents can use their children's advantages, specialties and success to cultivate their interest and perseverance in learning and achieve better results. Take your child to a science museum or museum. It can stimulate children's curiosity and thirst for knowledge and enhance their interest in learning. (4) Parents should praise and encourage their children more and blame and abuse less. Children have self-esteem, and they will be proud when their little achievements are recognized by everyone. Parents should not miss every opportunity worthy of praise. When a child has made some achievements, let him feel the joy of success and let him know how happy success is, and he will do the same next time. This gentle way of praise is easily accepted by children, and children will not lose interest in learning because of poor grades. (5) Be patient and don't be eager for quick success. Parents must be patient when cultivating children's interest in learning, because children's mental development is not mature enough, stability is not enough, and they are more active and playful, so don't be too eager to achieve success, so as not to have a negative impact.