Thoughts on how to go home (1)
A writer once said that he never read books published in the last five years. His reason is simple and scientific: if a book can still occupy the first shelf after five years of baptism, or can be mentioned by readers, it is not a bad book. According to his method, that's how I found the movie. There are too many movies. I am used to seeing colorful pictures and listening to noisy and chaotic sounds. If there is no fierce fighting, crazy racing, soul-stirring sniper and ups and downs twenty minutes before the movie starts, it will be difficult to continue watching. By this standard, I'm afraid "How to Be Home" will be defeated.
I dare not watch other film reviews online, for fear that other people's ideas will affect my feelings. Zain, the little hero, accused his parents of giving birth to him, but didn't raise him well. Parents also plausibly say that it is the cause of poverty. I fully understand Zain's parents' situation, the embarrassment and helplessness brought by poverty. This overwhelming force is pouring ice water and devastating blows.
Now, a stable country and a prosperous society have relieved our material worries. Parents, this is a profession that can be employed without skills, certification and qualifications. Besides, no matter whether your performance is excellent or not, no one will easily let you be laid off. As parents, you can have many children, you can adopt them, you can choose three or four buildings, and you can even get them back. You can accept it or not; You can take care of it or leave it alone; You can put him on the edge of the grass in the welfare home, or you can stick him tightly to your heart. For children, there is no other way to choose us, accept us with trust and gamble with their own lives. How expensive, irreversible and irreversible it is to pay. Children regard their parents as everything in the world and regard their parents' words and deeds as the most standardized and lofty template in the world.
My good friend Peng Haitao said that children come to educate us, not our teachers.
Thoughts on how to go home (2)
With sympathy and sadness, I watched the tear-jerking movie "How to Be Home", expressing deep sympathy for the suffering life of the victims exiled by the war, and at the same time having a deeper love for a kind and peaceful life.
How to Be Home tells the tragic life situation of the Enzan family, a boy as young as 12 years old, who fled to Lebanon because of the Syrian war. Because there is no identification, parents can only do odd jobs to make a living, and children have to sell things in the street to earn a little money. Because of the embarrassment of life, a family of seven or eight people crowded into a small rental house. Even so, the rent of the rental house is still a problem, and parents have no choice but to sell Enzan's sister, a little girl who is only 1 1 year old.
Enzan tried to escape from this house with his sister after knowing it, but it didn't succeed. He was also scolded and beaten by his parents. Finally, his sister was sold to someone else to be his wife. Enzan ran away from home for this reason, looking everywhere, hoping that someone would hire him. After being rejected again and again, he met Tagles, a single mother who is also a refugee. The kind Tagles took Enzan in, went to work by himself during the day, and left her two-year-old son to take care of.
Tagles needs a fake ID card because she entered the country illegally, but she can't afford a fake ID card on the black market, so she has to collect money everywhere. In the process of collecting money, she was detained by the police and put into prison. Enzan took his two-year-old child to make a living by all means and had a very difficult time. In the end, she had no choice but to sell the child. Enzan returned to his original home, hoping to find documents to prove his identity, go abroad to escape from this darkness and live a humble life like a cockroach and a mouse!
Only then did I know that my family had no identification, and I learned that my sister died of accidental bleeding during pregnancy. He stormed out of the house with a knife, stabbed the person who bought his sister, and finally went to prison. He sued his parents because they gave birth to him, but they didn't do their duty to raise him. They can't even solve the most basic survival problem! And take this opportunity to appeal to all refugees, shouting "I hope you don't have any more children!"
Noisy, shabby and crowded living environment, unkempt and hungry eyes wandering in the streets represented by Enzan family, humble refugees who have no legal status and can only make a living by working as illegal workers. War! The evil war has displaced countless innocent civilians! Let countless families fall into hot water!
Kindness, peace, stability, development and prosperity! 1988 seventy-five nobel prize winners issued a joint declaration in Paris, France: in order to survive in the 21st century, human beings must go back two thousand years and learn from the wisdom of Confucius! Dr. Tang Enbi, a famous British historian and philosopher, once said: "In the 2 1 century, only China's traditional Confucian culture and Mahayana Buddhism can save mankind!"
Peace, not war! How to go home is just a microcosm of the tragic life of refugees after the war. In order to prevent more families from repeating the historical tragedy, we call for peace! Only kindness can resolve human contradictions and disputes, only kindness can make society develop steadily, and only kindness can make the nation flourish!
Thoughts on how to go home (3)
After watching the movie "How to Be Home", the deepest feeling is truth. The world is real, and colorful phantoms can only exist in people's imagination.
The film How to Go Home mainly tells the hard and miserable life of Zain, a boy about 12 years old. Zain was born at the bottom of Lebanese society. His parents were unable to raise their children because of poverty, but they gave birth to one child after another. They let Zain drink other brothers and sisters to help support his family. Children don't have much quiet and happy time from birth, and they are always struggling on the edge of life and death.
Originally, I was ready to meet myself crying after watching the movie. But the fact is, from the beginning to the end of the film, I didn't leave any tears, but I just felt that my heart was blocked.
Zain kept asking this cruel world with the purest heart, constantly trying to find out why this world is like this. When he was sitting in prison, black and blue, he realized that no one could give him an answer. From the eyes of a 12-year-old boy, I felt desperate.
But he is such a kind, brave and responsible child. He was worried that his sister would be sold to someone else as a wife, washed her bloody underwear, stole money from home, and prepared to escape with her, although it didn't succeed. Even in the extremely difficult situation that he couldn't solve the problem of food and clothing, he still chose to insist on taking little Yunus and walking on this barren land like a knight. They take pleasure in suffering, using optical principles to put other people's TV on the mirror, simulate dubbing and enjoy it. I like Zain to shoot Yunus' back with a homemade trailer, so determined and brave. Shoulder all the sufferings with thin shoulders. But besides suffering and poverty, Zain also has love and responsibility for his sister Yunus, which makes me think a lot.
Without war, there would be no killing, and there would be no displaced people like Zain, so I hope for world peace; Without war, there would be no killing, so I hope every child can get the warmth of family and grow up as happy as me.
Thoughts on how to go home (4)
You are an angel on earth. When you come to this world, you should watch the sun with your beloved.
I used to think that all children, like us, came into this world with full expectations and were always surrounded by their parents' love, no matter whether they had money or not at home. But this idea, which has been deeply rooted for more than ten years, was shattered in front of such a film. Lu Xun said that tragedy is to destroy what you think is beautiful for you to see, or just tear up the darkness you can't see, still in front of your eyes. Perhaps that kind of helplessness and powerlessness is the most painful.
I have never been sad for a long time because I know that most of the performances are exaggerated and untrue, but I think the most important thing is that most of the plots in this story are actually the personal experiences of the little hero. We can never imagine how dark and miserable it is in an invisible place. Just like believing in the sunrise every day, we unconditionally believe in the love our parents give us. This is a belief that no one has ever doubted, just like eating when hungry and drinking when thirsty. However, it is hard to imagine that there are people in this world who really ignore the fate of their children for their own survival. I have no right to comment on other people's practices, because I can't understand their sufferings, but I heard Xiao Zan say: I will sue my parents because they gave birth to me. I think everyone will be moved by this sentence. How desperate is he to feel that it is better to live in this world from now on? This 12-year-old child was forced to bear too many responsibilities and sufferings that he should not bear. After all, he is just a child. He is a fragile child who doesn't understand the world yet, but fate has brought him bitterness that we will never taste. If one day, parents can't rely on it and can't believe it, how helpless and barren it will be.
I used to think that parents love their children instinctively, but now I finally believe that in the face of endless darkness in life and society, everyone will choose themselves, just like the mother in the film, who is numb after a brief grief over her daughter's death. She is not desperate to protect her children, but powerless. It is this deep sense of powerlessness that makes the softest place in the viewer's heart seem to be torn back and forth by blunt objects. Child, I only wish you to be strong, I only wish you to believe that the suffering will eventually pass, and I only wish you to wake up from despair and stop crying.
In fact, tragedy is never just the suffering of a group of people, but the sorrow of a society and a system. Fortunately, someone will always illuminate every inch of darkness with light. Children are angels who come to earth. May they all be treated with tenderness, safety and happiness after a world trip.
Thoughts on how to go home (5)
As soon as I saw the promo of this movie, I really wanted to see it. I don't think it is appropriate to take the children to see it. There are some negative scenes in it, which are true after reading. For example, in the first scene, some children smoke badly. Children are very imitative, so we have to wait until they grow up.
I used to cry when I watched Mysterious Superstar, but this film felt particularly sad. After reading it, my greater experience is to cherish the present.
The hero Zan is a little boy who lives in the bottom society of Lebanon. This story is mainly about suing his parents.
Compared with the children around us, the happiness index immediately soared.
There are two mothers in the movie, the awesome mother. She keeps giving birth. How many children are there? I don't know the birthday of the specific child. I have no sense of boundaries. I make excuses for my poor life and complain about all kinds of things. I am full of dissatisfaction with society.
The other is Rakhil (the mother of another little boy Terada). She can take care of the children by hook or by crook in the cracks, and she also sees the infinite potential of her mother. That motherly smile left a deep impression on people. She is a great mother and has not shirked her responsibilities as a mother.
I saw too many bright spots and helplessness from the little hero.
1, handsome, that kind of melancholy eyes is really pitiful, he looks like the hero of Twilight. Finally, the smile of taking the photo is unforgettable. I finally have my own identification!
2, smart and wise, as the saying goes, the poor child took charge early, and he took on the task of supporting his family from an early age. He couldn't hold Rakhil's child Trada, so he got a scooter, put Trada on it and dragged him to his mother. Someone asked him about his relationship with Terada, and he said it was a brotherly relationship, saying that his mother drank a lot of coffee when she gave birth to her younger brother, which made him very dark.
3. Integrity. When Rachiele asked Zan to take care of her children, Rachiele was still a little worried because they were not familiar with them at first. Others say Zan will sell her children. It turns out that Zan is still an honest child, and it is helpless to sell the child in order to go to Sweden.
Loving, Zan can do anything for her sister. He saw that she had her period, and knew that it would bring great disadvantage to her sister. She washed her sister's underwear and took off her clothes as sanitary napkins. She told her all the dangers that might bring to her sister, and told her all the predictable details. My sister is so touched to have such a good brother. Compared with her hateful parents, it is simply amazing.
5, sense of dignity, although poor, but still full of hope, do not laugh at yourself, live calmly, question your parents in court, that kind of courage is admirable. When Terada's mother could not be brought home, he also questioned whether there was a mother like his mother in the world. When Rakhil asked him how many brothers and sisters he had, he said a lot. Ironically, after his sister was killed, his mother was pregnant again, which broke his last bottom line and led him to take his parents to court.
He was reminded to be vigilant when he saw the evil eyes of the grocer at his sister. After receiving what a man gave his sister, he threw it directly into the trash can on the way back, not greedy for small profits and keeping his dignity.
6, full of hope for a better life, when someone told him that he could go to Sweden to live a better life, he went all out to throw caution to the wind for his documents.
This film blames parents who have no responsibility and responsibility from the perspective of a child. In the face of children, parents should know where their boundaries are and there is nothing they can do. How do they protect their children? So is Rakhil. She really loves her children. When she was arrested for illegal identity, she was even less able to take care of her children!
Only when you become strong can you hold up his umbrella for your child and escort him!
Director Labaki said, "This is a little light of victory at the end of the tunnel. It is this light that keeps you moving forward. "
On the one hand, let us know how to be grateful, on the other hand, let us see diversity and the real world.