1, a picture book that lets children know how to refuse: "No, no! 》
Suitable reading age: 3-6 years old
Author: [France] Mireille alonso
Translation: Dai Lu
Content abstract: Okta bear has reached the age of kindergarten, but up to now he can only say "no, no". Mom took him to school, and when he said goodbye, he said "no"; Classmates invited him to play together and gave him candy, and he also said "no" ...
Recommended reason: naive and lovely painting style, childlike language, close to children's psychology, vivid and humorous stories, used to describe children's rebellious psychology in their growth stage, so that children and parents can see their own shadow.
2. Let the children know how to refuse the picture book: "Kay can! 》
Suitable reading age: 3- 10 years old
Author: Wen/[Germany] Etienne Schleben-Victu/[Germany] Carola Holland
Translation: Wang Xiaocui
Content abstract: Kay often makes mistakes, so she is always criticized by her mother. Just when he felt inferior, a mysterious cat appeared. With the encouragement and praise of the cat, Kay began to become less bad. He finally regained his confidence and made unprecedented progress. I must say I fell in love with Kay at first sight. How familiar I am with the smell of Kay!
Highlight: Is Big Embryo Cat really that magical? Compared with the negative complaints of adults, it only completes the expression of love and expectation in a patient and positive way, which is actually as simple as that. Embryo Cat saw the world in children's eyes, and it understood the great impetus of appeasement and encouragement. And we should be glad that we have such a perfect picture book.
3. A picture book for children to know how to refuse: enemy school.
Suitable reading age: 3-6 years old
Author: Wen/[America] Derek Mosentu/[America] Tara graham king
Xiaoping, Xiao Jing
Content abstract: For the little boy, this should have been a perfect summer vacation, until Jamie moved nearby and became his number one enemy, things changed completely. Fortunately, the little boy's father has a winning trick, destroying the enemy-the hostile faction. .....
Highlight: A wise educational method is a major feature presented to readers in this picture book. I believe that every father has encountered this kind of problem, but the father in this article handled the problem so skillfully and gave the child a guidance and education in silence, with remarkable results. Not every father or mother can do this.
4. Let children know how to refuse picture books: "Let children learn to say no"
Suitable reading age: 3-8 years old
Author: Wen/[America] Marcy Abbott/[America] Catherine Gartner
Translation: Blessing
Content abstract: seemingly harmless tickling will actually cause considerable trouble to children. Tickling may cause physical pain and overstimulation, and lead to anger, loss of control, resentment, aggression and other negative emotions.
Recommended reason: This article describes the physical and emotional experiences that children will have when they encounter such situations, and helps parents teach their children to say "no" to unpleasant touches. Expressing love through body language is very important for having a healthy emotional life. However, the book Let Children Learn to Say No shows how some seemingly harmless physical contact can bring trouble to children.
5. A picture book that lets children know how to refuse: Nothing is impossible.
Suitable reading age: 3-6 years old
Author: [Australia] Shane McGonagall
Translation: Lin Xin
Content abstract: On Tom's 7th birthday, the little boy received many gifts: remote-controlled plane, robot, toy car … these are his favorite toys. However, Tom really doesn't know the use of the tennis racket his father gave him, because he thinks that no one plays tennis at all: my sister doesn't play, my mother doesn't play, my kitten doesn't play, my good friend Calvin doesn't play, and the dog certainly doesn't play. ...
Highlight: This picture book is fashionable, humorous, funny and instructive. "Afraid to try" or "unwilling to try" is a psychological obstacle for many children and even adults. This picture book tells children through funny stories: many times, it is often because you dare not try, but once you surpass yourself and do it boldly, through continuous learning and practice, there is nothing you can't do!
6. Let children know how to refuse picture books: "Don't order me around"
Suitable reading age: 3-6 years old
Author: [America] David Shannon
Translation: Yu Zhiying
Content abstract: Billy always orders Andy to do what Andy doesn't want to do, and even says, "If you don't go, I'll never play with you again!" " "To threaten him. Slowly, Andy got used to obedience, but he was unhappy. It was not until Andy refused Billy that he couldn't bear it, and he found that bravely refusing unreasonable demands wouldn't make him lose friends!
Recommended reason: victims should learn: refuse unreasonable demands, not be threatened, and master the right to speak and act by themselves; Threat implementers should know that they should not be "bullies", respect others' wishes and not force others to do things they don't want to do.
7. A picture book that lets children know how to refuse: "I will be very, very careful."
Suitable reading age: 3- 10 years old
Author: [English] Lauren julia child
Translation: Xiao Pi
Content abstract: Laura likes Luta's new coat very much. She thinks this is the cutest thing she has ever seen. So Laura traded her buckle bag for Luta's new coat. It's really great to wear a new coat. Laura has to wear it all the time. But ... she lost her new coat. What should Laura tell Luta?
Highlight: Children are the most reasonable people in the world. Even if they make mistakes, they often have a lot of reasons to throw at you. This kind of escape psychology often gives parents a headache, but what can they do?
8. Let children know how to refuse picture books: "Don't bully me casually"
Suitable reading age: 3- 10 years old
Author: Wen/[America] Steven Clauteaux/[America] Vincent Nguyen
Translation: Yu Zhiying
Content abstract: Bullying and being bullied are linked, and wrong thoughts and behaviors are being passed on. Clever mother monkey and brave little monkey become terminators of wrong behaviors and advocates of rejecting unreasonable demands. Wrong behaviors are corrected one by one, and positive energy is transmitted.
Recommended reason: victims should learn: refuse to bully the small with the big and bravely defend their legitimate rights and interests; Threat implementers should know that sharing together is happier than having it alone, and cultivate a sense of teamwork in sharing.