The education of the Jia family in A Dream of Red Mansions has always been the way to show filial sons under sticks. From the education of Jia Daishan and Jia Daihua in the first generation of Jia Fu to the education of Jia Zheng, Jia She and Jia Jing in the next generation, to the education of Jia Baoyu in the second generation, and even Jia Zhen's education of Jia Rong, the stick-like education has continued. Is this a good result? It is said that it turned out to be? Romantic? Jia Zheng was educated? Prude? Jia Zheng; Although Jia Jing studied hard at first, he also inherited the title. Who knows that he later went to a monastery, leaving his son Jia Zhen alone and letting him do mischief.
Jia Baoyu, the darling of Jia Mu, could not escape from his father Jia Zheng's stick, so Jia Mu loved Jia Baoyu in every way because she opposed Jia Zheng's stick education. When Jia Zheng hit Baoyu, Jia asked Jia Zheng how his father Jia Daishan educated him, and would he still use it on Baoyu? This also shows that the grandmother saw this kind of stick education and was very strongly opposed. But still can't stop her son, then she can only be more partial to her grandson Jia Baoyu and let him grow up freely without being influenced by stick education.
Unfortunately, this has caused the other extreme of stick education, doting. Jia Baoyu's doting on Jia Baoyu gives him reason to grow up among his daughters regardless of his career, hates fame and fortune even more, has deep prejudice against his father's idea of becoming a dragon, and feels that he can live happily among his daughters.