1, it is normal for junior high school children to have rebellious psychology and weariness in the process of self-growth. It's just how we guide education after children have problems. This period is a concentrated outbreak of children's problems, and it is also the best period for children to change and grow.

2. Therefore, before children are tired of learning, parents may not feel any problems in their education and care, so after children are tired of learning, parents must reflect on their family education methods. Besides, Rome was not built in a day.

3. Recognizing the deficiency of family education, in the process of change, parents' educational methods have changed, and children themselves need help to adjust and correct. Therefore, it is best for parents to take courses such as parenting education, and children should take courses such as growth education and psychological counseling. In this way, help children and parents grow up together and change together.

4. Learning weariness is a negative emotional expression of students' learning. From the psychological point of view, weariness of learning refers to the behavior response mode of students with negative attitude towards learning activities. The research of developmental psychology shows that learning activity is the leading activity of school-age children, the necessary condition for children's socialization development and the fundamental means for children to acquire knowledge and wisdom.

Due to the current education system in China, many times, parents have high hopes for their children, hoping that their children will succeed in life and their daughters will succeed in life. They don't pay attention to anything except their children's academic performance, which causes pressure, not motivation. Therefore, parents of middle school students should understand these situations, and the pressure on children on campus is great. Children should be encouraged to go home, and don't draw conclusions from the results.

6. Nowadays, parents like to compare with other children. Other people's children are good, let them learn. This actually makes their children have no dignity and live forever under the aura of "other people's children." Middle school students pay more attention to their own dignity, so they are even more reluctant to talk about it, so parents should not always let their children become other people's children.