Children who enter adolescence are really not so obedient. They gradually learn to think and choose what adults say, but because they are naive, they will inevitably have deviations in considering problems. This stipulates that parents should not only give some chemical help, but also give spiritual encouragement after the baby enters adolescence. Please understand them psychologically and apply them. At the level of psychological change, the purpose is to produce rebellious psychology. Parents say east, he says west, loves you and opposes it, which makes you half dead. The key to getting out of trouble is that parents should know that the key figures in children's lives at this stage are friends, not teachers, parents and other elderly people.

The meaning of this sentence is that the baby at this stage is more expecting to get fair friendship like a good friend, and more expecting parents to treat him as an adult and be their own master. If he wants to be the host, then we will try our best to meet his expectations in these fields. What should I do in practice? After careful observation, children have the following performances after puberty: from cheerful to shy (especially boys who change their voices first, and some are afraid to answer questions in class because their voices are different from others).

Rebellious, a little deaf to what parents say. Impulse. You will suddenly lose control of your emotions. Suddenly excited. Suddenly feel bullied and so on. I don't want to go to school, I want to go home. Love the internet. Boys are addicted to the fantasy world of online games. Girls love reading modern romance novels and chasing youth idol dramas. Some gradually match in the class. Pass on who someone likes. Some of them really began to fall in love with students. Treat children as friends. I often make such a description with my parents. What's it like to be friends with children? It is equivalent to a young new colleague coming to your company, and the leading cadres assign you to guide his work. Your specific guidance to this new colleague is cautious. Yes, that's the feeling. You can use it on adolescent children. Correct guidance for adolescent children can't be finished in one or two sentences. It's not appropriate to answer questions for too long. If any parents are confused in these aspects, you can trust me privately.

In short, if you have a perfect and meticulous family, you can successfully help your children through adolescence by paying attention to some ways. If you habitually educate your children repeatedly and like them, they will definitely lean in the direction you say. This is the characteristic of human nature, and no one can stop it. Remember that the direction in which you encourage children is the direction in which children should work hard.