2. Respect children, give them understanding and give them some independent space, but also pay attention to avoid letting them go too far. After the children enter the rebellious period, parents can think like communicating with friends. If the child does something wrong, don't blame him too much, but guide him calmly.
3. Understand and analyze children's psychological characteristics, and conduct corresponding guidance and education. The positive aspects of children's rebellious period, such as the increase of children's curiosity, the gradual establishment of self-awareness and the gradual emergence of independence. However, the emotional control ability of children in this age group is still relatively poor, which is the negative side of the rebellious period. Parents should pay attention to, according to the specific situation, make the best use of the situation to better promote its development.
There are fewer and fewer orders to discuss. For example, it's time to do homework. Tell him it's time to do his homework. Make sure the child feels that you respect him, so that he will be willing to obey.
5. Help children to evaluate themselves, and help children understand their academic performance, working attitude and hard work correctly and objectively. Be able to know yourself objectively, make continuous progress and improve yourself.
During the rebellious period, children aged 6, 4-5 sometimes take drastic measures to win their parents' attention, such as trying to get their parents' attention by crying. At this time, parents must be patient, don't lose their temper, and don't beat and scold their children. Let the children calm down and help them analyze and correct.
7. Listen to your child's thoughts patiently. Don't vote against the child just because he doesn't agree. Especially when children's ideas are feasible, parents should let their children do it according to their own ideas. Parents should tell their children even if their ideas are unreasonable. For infeasible reasons, this can help children learn to distinguish right from wrong and refuse to make trouble without reason.
8. Make friends with children, spend more time chatting with them and ask about their schools and interpersonal relationships, so that children will feel that their parents respect and trust them and treat them as their own children. The people they trust will no longer be rebellious.