compulsory education
It is imperative for the older generation to educate people, such as what you want to do and what you want to do. This kind of tone is very strong, which is unacceptable to most people. On the contrary, it will lead to rebellious psychology, which is counterproductive.
Hint education
Suggestive education, such as I think you can try it, is rarely expressed, which may be related to their living conditions and education level. As they get older, they are more and more resistant to learning new things, which makes them lazy. Therefore, live to the old age, reflect on your future, strive not to be eliminated by society, and strive to be both children and children.