The behavior habits of primary schools affect children's life! It plays a vital role in children's academic performance! Parents will focus on cultivating the ability to think independently, analyze problems independently and complete homework independently!
Many parents help their children with their homework every day. Parents will bring two disadvantages. First of all, they will form the thinking of finding their parents to solve problems and develop a serious dependence thought! Parents can't finish the questions without helping homework, and children are too lazy to think, just waiting to eat "ready-made meals", as shown below.
In this way, after children enter junior high school, knowledge is more difficult. Children still have to rely on their parents, but many parents have been unable to coach their children's junior high school studies, leading to a decline in grades!
Parents with excellent grades in junior high school and high school are good at resolving conflicts with their children, so that their children can successfully pass through the rebellious period of youth and be admitted to an ideal good high school and a good university!
Nowadays, children develop early, and many children have surpassed their parents in height after entering junior high school. When they talk to their parents condescendingly, they will subconsciously think that they are also "adults", so they don't listen to their parents as before! Parents who have their own views on things, are playful and rebellious, don't study and don't understand education, take this opportunity to order their children around! Talk to children in a commanding tone. Some parents beat and scold their children, nag them and satirize them. As a result, children are particularly disgusted with not communicating with their parents and refuse to change themselves.
Secondly, parents of children with good grades will cultivate their self-control, eliminate the interference of external factors that affect their study, and let them calm down and study hard.
Today's children live in a colorful world. When my parents were young, there was no TV, no computer and no smart phone. But there are too many factors to tempt children now. If parents don't guide them reasonably, then children will be deeply involved, especially now that smart phones are powerful! It makes it difficult for many children to give up, play games with their mobile phones, chat online and brush videos. Once the first student is addicted to the mobile phone, his study will plummet, just like the two junior high school students and senior high school students in the picture below, who don't take study and the senior high school entrance examination seriously. If they are addicted to games, where is the mind to do homework and think about problems?
Therefore, far-sighted parents will cultivate their children's sense of responsibility in the senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, so that children can understand that the accusation as a student is to spend the most precious time in life on study and IQ and energy on study, instead of playing games and watching TV. Only in this way can we ignite the engine of children's learning, from parents asking me to learn to I want to learn. If parents use busy work and entertainment as an excuse, then children will let themselves go! Then I'm afraid this child will be eliminated if he can't even get into an ordinary high school.
Children are the future and hope of the family and the motherland, and it is the unshirkable responsibility of every parent to cultivate their children into useful people! Children's growth can't be separated from their parents' companionship, education, encouragement and encouragement, so everyone says that the family is the first school for children, and parents are the class teachers after their retirement!