The responsibility that a married man should bear, when many girls are looking for the other half in marriage, the most important thing is the sense of responsibility. In marriage, men need to take responsibility and protect this family together, and life will be happy. Below I share the responsibilities that a married man should bear.

The responsibilities of married men 1 1. The small place where he lives is a man's private plot and responsibility field. Whether you are an official or a citizen, whether you are a millionaire or a poor family.

Whether you are far away from home or close to home, whether you are busy or idle at work, you should arrange enough time, put some material and energy into it, treat it well with a strong sense of responsibility, work hard, manage it carefully, and be kind to your family is equal to being kind to yourself.

2. The male owner of a family should establish the concept of governing the family by virtue, protecting the family by sincerity and establishing the family by civilization, and take the initiative to assume the responsibility of governing the family.

It is important to establish good family rules, standardize words and deeds, manage yourself, your spouse and your children, and persist in cultivating a hardworking, thrifty, healthy and civilized family lifestyle, especially educating children, because children are the hope and future of family harmony.

3. Benevolence is the center of moral structure in China's traditional cultural system. However, it is still necessary for men today to regard benevolence as the basic standard and code of conduct for self-cultivation, which is not contradictory to the current moral standards of spiritual civilization.

Men should be kind and charitable to all family members, be filial to their elders, be considerate to their wives, take care of their brothers and sisters, love their children, and love their loved ones as their own lives.

In family life, the exchange of ideas between relatives is very important, and as a man, you must keep your word and keep your word.

If you promise something to your family, you must do everything possible to keep it; For things that are difficult to do for the time being, we should patiently explain the reasons, and never make promises or do things that pinch our noses and coax our mouths for the sake of temporary happiness.

In a family's daily life, from buying a house to buying clothes, the head of the family needs to make a decisive and correct decision on the basis of discussing with his family, such as when and where to buy a house.

This requires seeking truth from facts, tailoring measures to suit one's own circumstances, and grasping the most appropriate opportunity to act. When making decisions, you don't follow the rules, don't wait and see, have the courage to try, and have the determination to practice.

6. As a man, it is very necessary to be studious and enterprising, not only to pursue profound knowledge, but also to explore the origin of family studies.

A man must have a deep understanding, understanding and concern about the concept of home; We must stand higher, look farther, be less imaginative, be more practical, and put family responsibilities in a proper position.

7. Things in the family are specific and complicated, such as food, clothing, housing and transportation, having children, weddings and funerals, interpersonal communication and property control. It can be said that every family has a difficult experience.

As a man, he should be able to properly handle all kinds of things and contradictions encountered at home, so that he can be regarded as the pillar of the family. Therefore, men should study for life, improve their quality, and do A's to get things done.

The responsibilities that a married man should bear 2 When a person really walks into the lives of two people, even three people and four people, he needs to bear more and more things.

In order to make these people live as happily as possible, we should try our best to undertake basic or better life responsibilities and obligations.

Indeed, in the face of marriage, family, parents and children, a person can bear too many things, and sometimes it even makes people feel very tired. However, no matter how many reasons people have to escape from this life, there is a bottom line, that is, married men had better not try to touch it.

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Aivi Lu is one of many married men, and his wife is his college classmate.

When they fell in love, they were Aivi Lu's active wives. At that time, his wife was a goddess, a princess and someone he wanted to take care of all his life.

After marriage, Aivi Lu and his wife have been working hard in other places. Later, they gradually got a house and a car, and their lives were relatively better.

/Kloc-Married in 0/6, what Aivi Lu admires most is that every year on his parents' birthdays, his wife prepares gifts such as nutrition for both parents on time, and has been doing filial piety for Aivi Lu.

However, although Aivi Lu knew that his wife had been very kind to him over the years and devoted herself to her family and her parents, many subtle changes had taken place in her feelings.

Aivi Lu no longer likes to listen to his wife's nagging about trivial matters at home, and he doesn't want to take his wife out to parties with colleagues and friends.

Many times, I can see that my wife is very hard, but I still can't convince myself to love her more. He understood the man's numbness in years of marriage as a common fault of men.

Many men will pretend to be confused, knowing that their wives have worked hard for many years, but they just don't want to go back to their initial heart when they got married and be good to her. Choose a more comfortable way to enjoy life and ignore your wife.

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Sometimes, men find married life strange. Before they got married, they thought it was the happiest thing to get their own wife.

However, after marriage, especially after living in marriage for a period of time, I feel that the women he can't get seem to be much better than his wife, and even have the impulse to give up the original choice for the so-called love.

Aivi Lu also encountered such an emotional crisis when she got married 13 years ago.

At that time, the life of Aivi Lu and his wife had improved, and the living standard at home was very high. He has a car, but he is very busy. He seldom has the opportunity to drive them around or go back to his parents together.

At that time, Aivi Lu's pursuit was career, and it was to realize his performance goal. He always felt that there shouldn't be too much trouble at home, or it would be a drag on his career.

During that time, Aivi Lu was most annoyed by his wife after getting married. Before that, he just bothered her nagging. During that time, he didn't even like her and wanted to avoid her.

Then, compared with his wife, another woman who knows him better appeared and stole his sight and pursuit with a sense of existence.

Some men who have been married for many years will fall into such a misunderstanding:

Originally, he worked hard to make his family live better, especially for his wife and children, but he gradually put his work first, ignoring his attitude towards his wife and children and his concern for his family in the process of hard work.

A man with a family will be very sad if everything he has worked so hard for can't bring happiness to his family.

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There was a time when Lu Feng came home and just wanted to sleep, because sleeping was the only thing he felt relaxed at home.

In fact, he knows that there is nothing wrong with his wife, but he has his own problems, and he doesn't know how to be grateful and satisfy his wife.

But he likes to work with that female colleague, discuss projects and plan together.

On the one hand, he can't resist the primitive impulse. He really likes the understanding, resonance and freshness and attraction between the opposite sex that the woman brings him.

The woman, of course, has the same affection for Aivi Lu, but because both of them are adults with families, they have been struggling and wandering.

One step forward is the love he expects. He can have a chance to have a love affair with the woman he likes, and he can hold hands with her romantically. Trying to walk into her feelings always makes it difficult for him to convince himself to remember the fact that marriage exists.

But if he knows how to stop, he knows that their respective lives will continue to be happy and peaceful, and he also knows that he shoulders too many responsibilities. Keeping his emotional bottom line for marriage is the most basic responsibility that men should bear and do.

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It was that woman who asked Aivi Lu out on her own initiative. Maybe a woman has been tortured by the feeling of ambiguity and non-confession.

She asked Aivi Lu frankly about her feelings and thoughts.

For a man who has been married for many years, this is a difficult negotiation. If he is not firm enough, he will be captured by her so-called love, and it is really difficult to stand firm.

Before answering a woman's question, a picture came into Aivi Lu's eyes. A woman is busy in the kitchen, cooking for him and her children. Her figure has gradually changed from a graceful girl to a middle-aged housewife.

A woman gave him the best time of his life. He can't abandon her just because he doesn't think she is pretty enough and he seems to like someone else again.

After refusing the confession of a female colleague, Aivi Lu suddenly regained the focus of her life. He began to like to listen to his wife's nagging, because every word is her love for him, because that is the real life.

Aivi Lu has been transferred, so she is no longer so busy with her work, has more time to spend with her wife and children, and knows how to love and take care of them.

In the next two years, my wife laughed a lot. They also took both parents to live nearby, and their children studied well. The family is harmonious and beautiful, simple and happy.

Sometimes he would think quietly, if he hadn't kept his bottom line, would it be miserable now? Maybe this generation would miss the happy picture of the whole family.

Fortunately, when he was distracted, he pulled himself back in time.

After having a family, every choice of a man will involve the life of a big family. Old sin makes new shame.

For a man with a family and a marriage, if he wants to make his family happy, the most important responsibility he should fulfill and bear is to know how to keep his emotional bottom line and not do anything that hurts his marriage.