In order to coax children, parents often inadvertently educate their young minds to shirk their responsibilities. Over time, they will inadvertently sow the seeds of shirking responsibility for young children, thinking that their mistakes are caused by objective reasons and have nothing to do with themselves. It is the responsibility of others to do things badly in the future, because objective conditions do not exist or hinder them, rather than looking for reasons subjectively.

2. Self-sacrifice education

It is the concept of some adults. No matter how hard they work, they should try their best to meet all the requirements of their children and make excessive self-sacrifice, which will often make children think that others exist for them and let them take it for granted, but they don't know that they still have the responsibility to feed back, which leads to their lack of sense of responsibility.

3. Lack of discipline education

Some irresponsible behaviors of children are often accompanied by some bad consequences. For example, if you can't remember the tasks assigned by the teacher, you will be criticized by the teacher, and if you promise others not to do things, it will lead to others' distrust of you. When children have these irresponsible behaviors, adults always think that children are young and it is natural to make mistakes. In addition, children find various reasons to excuse themselves. Adults forgive children again and again and are unwilling to punish them. In fact, this is a connivance for children to make mistakes. Over time, children will not take mistakes seriously, and will dilute or even lose their sense of responsibility for their actions.