1. Emotional communication and understanding: Parents often find it difficult to communicate with their children. Children may not fully understand their parents' feelings and expectations because of differences in age, personality and life experience.

Conversely, parents may not fully understand their children's emotional world, such as their fear, anxiety, excitement and sense of accomplishment. This difficulty in emotional communication may lead to misunderstanding and conflict, thus affecting family relations and educational effects.

2. Balance between learning and interest: In a rapidly developing society, children's learning tasks are getting heavier and heavier. However, how to strike a balance between study and interest is a problem that puzzles many parents.

On the one hand, parents hope that their children can achieve excellent results in school; On the other hand, they worry that too much study pressure will stifle children's interest and creativity. This kind of worry may lead parents to hesitate when planning their children's educational path, and they are not sure how much freedom and pressure they should give their children.

3. Cultivate independence and overprotection: As children grow older, parents may face a challenge: how to cultivate children's independence while preventing them from being hurt.

Many parents want their children to be responsible and have the ability to think and act independently, but excessive protection may lead to their children not really growing up. On the other hand, if parents rely too much on their children's independence, they may ignore their children's safety and happiness. This contradiction makes parents need to find a suitable balance when educating their children.

Characteristics of children's emotional communication;

1, direct, not reserved: children usually express their emotions and feelings directly, and don't hide or suppress their emotions like adults. At the same time, they usually express their love, care and love for others without reservation, or express their dissatisfaction and anger at dissatisfied people and things.

2, mood is changeable: children's emotions are easily affected by the external environment, and their emotions change quickly. For example, they may be angry because a toy is broken, but when someone gives them a new toy, they will soon forget their unhappiness and become happy.

3. Naive and natural: Children are usually not bound by social rules and adult expectations in their emotional communication, and their emotional communication is more pure and natural. For example, if they like a child, they will directly tell the child that they like him, regardless of whether they conform to social rules or not, and whether others will have opinions on themselves.