The important point of girls' education is very important to parents. Parents need to master some methods when educating their children to make them grow up better. Let me introduce some important information about girls' education to you. Let's have a look.
Key points of girls' education 1 1, safety bottom line
Girls are born weak, and parents need to give their children courage. Let them learn how to protect themselves and have the ability to resist danger.
It is often seen in the news that some girls don't know how to protect themselves, are hurt by bad people, and even lose their precious lives.
As a vulnerable group, the most important thing for women is to protect themselves, not to protect others first.
As a woman, please always remember that you are a vulnerable group in violent crimes, so women should always put self-protection first in life, not protecting others.
Believe in the sunshine and beauty of the world, remember that behind the light is the shadow, and understand that the rivers and lakes are sinister and there is always danger hidden in the darkness. I believe that there are good people in the world, but we should also manage our own kindness.
2. The bottom line of the body
Women's strength is naturally small. Even with the same height and weight, their muscle strength is far lower than that of men. Sadly, many girls whose bodies have been violated will be hurt twice by public opinion after coming forward. This has led many women to remain silent in the face of harm, and also made the aggressors more daring.
In life, we should educate girls that when they are violated, they must boldly say no at the first time and violently resist.
If you want to show resistance when a man swears or acts, silence will only make him push his luck. Your resistance lets him know that you are self-respecting, not just any girl, and he won't hurt you casually.
Don't hurt your body at any time, let alone sell the benefits of physical activity.
3. Emotional bottom line
This is a true story. On the flight from Hong Kong to Kuala Lumpur, more than 20 women with drugs were found, and they will face the death penalty or jail.
These girls, originally the only children in the family, are the apple of their parents' eyes and live a life of food and clothing. However, for the so-called love, transporting drugs for foreign boyfriends, heading for no return. These girls are carried away by love and even willing to die for each other.
In real life, there are also many girls who lose themselves because of love, blindly cater to each other, make a lot of sacrifices, hand over their life control to others and lose themselves.
Feelings should have a bottom line. May you love and be yourself.
4. The bottom line of life
Girls should learn to stand on their own feet and not blindly rely on others. With work and income, we can be more confident in front of the people we love.
Many women want to have a long-term love and a home that can make them feel at ease.
You know, only if you and your lover are evenly matched, and the two grow up in the same rhythm, the relationship will last longer.
The focus of girls' education 2. The importance of body
A family has a girl doll who went to high school. One day, she didn't come home until after one o'clock in the morning, and her father didn't say anything after seeing it. The next day, he invited the child to the bar and told her: You can drink whatever you want, and Dad can take you back. That night, the girl drank a lot of wine and finally got so drunk that she couldn't remember anything. When she woke up, she found herself lying on the bed at home with a note written by her father. It says: Yesterday you drank more than ten bottles and passed out. Remember, this is your bottom line. There will still be some less beautiful situations in the world. Dad may not always be by your side, so you should know your own business, learn to protect your body, and don't have any bad situations.
In addition to this story, there is also such a plot in a TV series. The child is a graduate student and the tutor has a good impression on her. She took the girl home on the pretext of revising her paper, and then she wanted to break the rules. However, the girl behaved well. She resisted and shouted for help. The tutor stopped this behavior because she was afraid of attracting others. In order to prevent things from happening again, the girl tried to find other teachers and went abroad. In fact, this kind of behavior is very common now, but many people are afraid of their reputation or the majesty of their tutors and dare not say anything. If they are violated, they will bear it themselves. The reason why she can do this is because her parents told her from an early age that health comes first and she can't sell herself for anything when she grows up. So at this time, she chose to resist rather than endure. As parents, we must give our children an idea that we are always the most important.
Handling of feelings
We may have heard stories of many people. We liked a boy in college and even in high school. She will make every effort to make him like herself. Boys want to eat chestnuts in the middle of the night, so she runs around every corner of the small city to find them; When two people quarrel, even if the fault is not their own, they should bow their heads and apologize; I would also like to soak in cold water to wash his clothes in winter. Sometimes the compromise you think can't make the other person treat you better, they will only consume your feelings without a bottom line. Therefore, in the face of her daughter, parents must tell her this truth in advance, treat her feelings reasonably, and don't always pay. This is what they should do.
The meaning of life
Now, most dolls receive the message that we should do more good deeds, and when we see someone being bullied, we should go up and help. We also know that some dangerous things will inevitably happen in this life. If we don't have the ability to fight with others, we should learn to solve the problem in a roundabout way and try not to be unhappy in person. If others are in danger, we will try our best to help. If we can't help, we will call the police in time. Don't put yourself in such a dangerous situation. If a person is in danger, it will be very troublesome. Don't increase the burden. If the gangsters we meet want to rob money, then we will give them all, and it is most important to save our lives.
We have seen many accidents in order to save others, not that it is wrong to do so, but that girls should try their best to protect themselves. And no matter what you meet, you should have hope and confidence in life. You can't end this short journey easily. Choosing to leave yourself is the stupidest solution. When we encounter something difficult to solve, we can chat with people around us more and see how others look at this kind of thing, which may give you some new inspiration. We have also met many people who feel that they can't go on when they encounter a little trouble. They want to jump off a building or take medicine and leave early. Life is hard to come by. We should make children accept it and know what they shouldn't do.