Zhang Yide's suicide caused different views among netizens. Some people think that his suicide was driven by his father. This self-satisfied, self-moved act of giving up self-education is simply outrageous. Some people think that his suicide may have nothing to do with his father, which shows that he is full of love for his son.

However, I think the way of education directly affects a child's life. Maybe every parent has different views on education, but they may not be recognized by their children.

Judging from the growth process of Zhang Yide, he became a person with good study and strong ability, and his sudden suicide must be related to the way of education. I don't know the whole picture and don't comment, but I think all-round love is really suffocating.

First of all, I think the most terrible thing about this father is that he arranged zhang yi Dean in a vacuum environment.

From his father's Weibo, we can see that Zhang Yide hardly looks at the camera and is unwilling to make eye contact with others. I don't know why his father didn't find this thing. But for more than ten years, food is not heavy, and the courtyard path is named after the child. Hundreds of thousands of photos put the child in a vacuum pressure environment, which will definitely make the child feel suffocated.

Secondly, this kind of self-moving education will bring countless pressures to children.

In order to exercise the child's self-care ability, the father asked the 8-year-old child to cook a meal for forty or fifty people. But this meal is used to entertain fans and prepare tuition. My father doesn't have a job himself, and all the tuition and expenses of private schools come from fans.

This mode of getting along makes children think that everything is for their father's satisfaction. All the initial heart, reason and affection have been distorted. This kind of self-hypnosis education has touched my heart, but it has given children countless pressures.

Finally, I think that if a father wants to educate his children, he should set an example.

Many parents insist on giving up self-education, just like this father, or even giving up their jobs. However, they regard their children as an investment and hope to get benefits from them.

If a father wants to educate his children well, he should set an example and tell them how to make money and how to work hard. The pressure that the father thinks is good for his children is nothing more than pushing him into the abyss of despair.