1? The louder the voice of parents, the less likely children are to "talk".
Shouting when educating children, the result is nothing more than two kinds:
The first kind:
The child is scared by you, full of fear, and has no mind to think about why it is wrong. I just want you to end the condemnation soon.
The second type:
The child was angered by you and shouted back at you, without considering what was wrong, just trying to make you angry. Often reprimanding your child loudly will not only get no effect, but will make your child more rebellious and stop telling you what you know.
2? The more parents talk, the faster children "run"
Why is it obvious that it is good for children, and children just don't want to hear it? There is a term in psychology called "overrun effect": it refers to the phenomenon that the body will naturally escape when it is stimulated too much.
The condescending preaching is ostensibly communication, but in fact it only requires children by their own standards.
Children who have no initiative will naturally choose to escape and refute because they have no sense of participation.
3? Parents listen patiently, and children can talk.
Every disobedient child
There is a voice in my heart.
As long as parents are willing to "listen"
Children will say "say"
Parents learn to listen effectively.
Children speak with more confidence.
Really benign parent-child communication
Not just the tongue.
80% of children's education lies in communication.
20% is in teaching.
4? Education in a low voice is the best tutor for children.
When you talk to your child in a low voice, calm tone and serious tone, you will become "angry and arrogant" in the eyes of your child.
Children will not be overly afraid and resistant to you.
At this time, it will be much better to reason with children and argue about right and wrong.
A deep voice can make adults
More rational, calm and temperate.
Avoid attacking and hurting children's self-esteem.
You can also stop children from using high notes.
The size of parents determines a child's life.
Education in a low voice is the best tutor for children.