There has never been such a hero as Lao Zi. There are too many heroic sons of Laozi in history, including the Great Bear, Qin Shihuang of Hu Hai, Qin Ershi, Zhao She of Zhao Kuo and Gong Zizhen, who led Eight-Nation Alliance to burn down Yuanmingyuan.
Whether you are a hero or not depends entirely on the education and efforts of your parents! It is unrealistic to expect children to be self-disciplined and fall into the abyss like heroes in martial arts novels and gain incomparable martial arts in vain.
It's not too late while the child is still young. Don't repeat the tragedy of parents in children.