Father's responsibility in family education

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In Saint Amethyst, people say that "it is the father's fault to raise but not teach", which emphasizes the important responsibility of the father in family education.

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Differences between Father and Mother in Family Education

We often say, "Father loves mountains and mother loves water." Father loves mountains. He supports children's beliefs, providing tenacity, responsibility, boldness, decisiveness, self-confidence, boldness, independence, strength, support and dependence, so that they can learn to be strong. Mother is water. She nourishes children's hearts, provides them with nurturing, warmth and comfort, and makes them learn to be gentle.

Mother's education is like feeding children brown sugar water, and father's education is like feeding children calcium. Father's influence on children is mainly manifested in character cultivation, intellectual development, social psychology and the establishment of strong, independent and brave character, which is irreplaceable by mother in family education. The mother's delicacy, gentleness and kindness are conducive to the child's "soft" character growth. But the father's courage, firmness and decisiveness are conducive to the formation of the child's "justice" character. Combining rigidity with softness is a sound personality.

Father is more rude. On average, fathers let their children climb out twice as far as mothers allow; When children are faced with new things, such as dogs, strangers or new toys, mothers will instinctively approach their children to make them feel protected, while fathers tend to stand aside and let them explore for themselves.

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The role of father in children's education

1 is beneficial to children's "mental" development.

According to research, boys who have at least two hours of contact with their fathers every day are not only smarter, but also more harmonious in dealing with interpersonal relationships than boys who have less than six hours of contact with their fathers every week. According to the research of scientists from Yale University in the United States, children brought up by their fathers tend to have higher IQ, better grades in school and more likely to succeed in society in the future.

2. A sound "personality" conducive to children.

In terms of assisting children's personality growth, conscientious fathers care for their children more actively than mothers care for their children by 25% to 30%. Fathers will make boys learn to be strong and rigid, and girls will know how to be women better. Different types of father-daughter relationship will lead to different women, and the father's view of women largely determines the daughter's understanding of her gender role. A father who respects women and equality between men and women will give his daughter great encouragement to pursue equality and develop her abilities in all aspects, and will also pursue the same respect and understanding in her future relations with other men.

3. It is conducive to children's "comprehensive" experience of life.

Whether a boy or a girl lives in a man's circle or a girl's country, the world he sees is not comprehensive. Mothers are more likely to spoil and indulge their children. The father's love is deep and serious, and the father is more concerned with the future of the child. Most children who have lost their father's love lack self-confidence, curiosity and exploration spirit, and their will is weak; When you grow up, you will be at a loss when you encounter any problems. The influence of fatherly love on children includes intelligence, physique, emotion and personality.

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How is the father doing in children's education?

"Give time, give space and do what fathers should do." No matter how busy you are, you should spend time with your children and teach them to be strong. This influence is subtle. As long as the father spends more time with the children, the rigidity of the children will naturally breed. The family education and example that the father can provide is irreplaceable by the mother.

As a father, no matter how busy he is, he should spend some time on his children's education and dedicate his responsibility and affection to the next generation. Giving space is creating environment, and fathers should cultivate children's spirit of exploration. Men have a strong spirit of exploration, and they often engage in some exploratory activities with their children. Mother may scold the children if they take the toys apart. Fathers may open toys with their children to satisfy their curiosity and then teach them to put them away. Fathers are often more interested in new things, so they will also stimulate children's interest in new things. Fathers should take their children for outdoor activities more often. Men tend to be active. They like to take their children to run, swim, rock climb and play ball, which virtually exercises their willpower. Moreover, men are less clean than women, so they often take a supportive attitude towards children playing with mud and digging sand.

Can play the role of advocate, porter and driver in outdoor activities of the whole family. While ensuring the amount of outdoor exercise, you can play chess with your children to improve their logical thinking ability; You can also take children to do manual work to cultivate their hands-on ability; Playing computer games with children, excellent game software can improve children's creativity and so on. Consciously stimulate children's curiosity, broaden children's knowledge, cultivate children's various abilities, such as living ability and autonomy, and cultivate children's good personality qualities, such as self-esteem, self-confidence, enterprising, humor and humor.

To sum up, the way fathers educate their children is as simple as that, playing with their children, taking them to play, playing whatever they should, and leaving more time for their children.

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