Educating children is a difficult road. Different parents often adopt different educational methods. Mothers may be gentle when educating their children, but fathers can be a little simple and rude when educating their children. Most fathers will adopt the method of stick education. Then why? What's wrong with this stick education?

1. Why did father adopt stick education?

Influenced by traditional ideas. Playing is kissing and scolding is love, and not playing or scolding is evil. I believe this sentence should be familiar to everyone. In the traditional culture of our country, there has always been a theory that a dutiful son is born under a stick. This also leads parents to think that their children must fight, and they will not fight or fight. If you don't fight, you will probably raise a rebellious child in the future. If you don't fight, your child may become unruly in the future. Parents feel comfortable beating their children when they are angry, but in fact, this stick education method is only bad for children. The traditional education method has its advantages, but it should also admit its disadvantages.

Second, what's wrong with bonzi education?

1. Affect children's physical and mental health development. In fact, it is understandable that most parents want to bring up their children, but it is essential to pay attention to educating their children instead of hitting them. Parents usually have the experience of hitting their children for the first time, and often once their children make mistakes in the future, parents will no longer use persuasion and education, and raise their hands to hit them. The purpose of parents doing this is not only to educate their children to know that they are wrong, but also to vent their dissatisfaction. However, such behavior for a long time may cause children to form an autistic psychology, and will also have a sense of hatred for these behaviors of parents.

2. Affect the parent-child relationship. Many parents think that I spank my children for their own good, so children can understand, so children can't bear grudges against their parents, otherwise it is unfilial. However, this concept is also wrong. In fact, in other countries, it is illegal to hit children. Children are born and raised by themselves, but remember that children are not entirely your own, children are human beings, and children have human rights, so hitting children can only make them hate you more and more.

Finally, remind parents to communicate with their children correctly when they encounter something, and don't threaten their children with beatings. This kind of education is useless. The way of beating and scolding children can only make them more timid and cowardly. Some may affect a child's life. There are no children who cannot be educated, only parents who cannot be educated.