After a dish is served, you usually have to wait for the owner or the old man to come before you start eating. If you need to use public chopsticks or a public spoon to serve food, you should first use public chopsticks to serve food on your own plate, and then eat it slowly with your own chopsticks.
When picking vegetables, don't move chopsticks until the dishes are turned to yourself, and don't grab them in front of your neighbors. It is not advisable to bring too many dishes at a time. Don't just put one dish on the plate, followed by another. Don't put the picked dish back on the plate, stretch your chopsticks to pick up another dish. Occasionally, some vegetables fall on the table, so don't put them back on the plate. Avoid the food next door and beware of chopsticks fighting. If there is a foreign guest at the same table, don't persuade him repeatedly or help him, because foreign guests generally don't have this habit.
Spoons are mainly used to drink soup, and sometimes they can also be used to hold slippery food. Especially when drinking soup, we should pay attention to the following points:
When scooping soup, don't touch the spoon with the bowl, and don't make any noise. After scooping up, gently wipe the bottom of the spoon at the edge of the plate before putting it in your mouth. The degree to which the spoon is ready to eat should be limited to the front of the bowl and plate, and the soup must not drip outside the bowl and plate.
Don't make any noise when you drink soup. Keep your back straight and face down. Hold the spoon horizontally, tilt it slightly so that the front end of the spoon is close to your mouth and pour the soup into your mouth.
Don't fill the spoon too much. Especially the first spoon, it has the task of confirming the heat of the soup. Sometimes the soup served is very hot. Try to drink less soup at this time. If it is too hot, pour the soup into a bowl and spoon it slowly. Wait for the soup to cool down, and then drink it bit by bit.
Don't eat the soup bowl directly. When the soup in the soup bowl is almost finished, hold the bowl with your left hand, tilt the soup bowl slightly, and then scoop the soup with your right hand. Don't pick up the soup bowl and drink it all at once, which doesn't meet the requirements of table manners.
Taboos of food etiquette 1. Avoid palms facing the bowl.
This taboo is also related to beggars, because beggars hold bowls with their palms up when begging; We usually eat by hand. Therefore, this kind of eating is also considered unlucky, and children should pay attention when they are young. For parents who want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed, beggars' behavior can never be imitated.
Second, avoid knocking on the bowl with chopsticks.
Beggars used to knock empty bowls with chopsticks and beg from door to door to attract people's attention. Knocking on the bowl with chopsticks has almost become a symbolic action of beggars. Therefore, children with good family education are told from an early age that they can't knock on bowls with chopsticks. Naughty children will be severely criticized and even punished by their parents if they deliberately violate it. If adults still do this kind of behavior, it will be regarded as less tutoring.
Third, the most taboo is to stick chopsticks vertically in rice.
Traditionally, when offering sacrifices to the dead, chopsticks should be inserted directly into the rice for the dead to enjoy. Because this method of inserting chopsticks is very particular, it shows that this bowl of rice is for the dead. Adults will teach children not to pose like this when they are young, which has become the first taboo when eating.
Fourth, avoid opening chopsticks separately.
During the whole meal, chopsticks should always be placed side by side, and never separate a pair of chopsticks to avoid? Quick (chopsticks) separation? Homophonic, moral, affecting feelings.
5. Avoid talking with food in your mouth.
Did the ancients pay attention? Eat without talking, sleep without talking? Yes Nowadays, eating together has become an important means to communicate feelings and interpersonal relationships. It is impossible to eat without talking. But even so, there are still some details to pay attention to.
At the dinner table, people who open their mouths with their mouths full of food often seem to be afraid that others can't hear them clearly and speak loudly. The food in their mouths can easily be sprayed on the dinner table or even on others' faces.
This kind of behavior is not only unsanitary and impolite, but also regarded as ill-bred.
6. The host should avoid leaving early and packing.
Treat guests to dinner at home, entertain guests, let guests feel the enthusiasm of the host, and avoid some very rude places.
For example, the dinner process is not over yet, and the host leaves early, which will make the guests feel uneasy; It is very impolite for the host to clear up the dishes, clean the table and sweep the floor in advance. This will be regarded as a sign of expelling guests.
Seven, go home to avoid leftovers.
When visiting other people's homes, don't be too casual when eating. Pay attention to some customs, taboos, and pay attention. For example, the most common phenomenon of leftovers is actually very inappropriate when you are a guest. There is a cloud in Zhu Zhijia's motto: a porridge and a meal, when thinking hard; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources. ? Advise people not to waste. What do you advocate now? Operation CD? It is also against waste. When visiting someone's house, the food left in the bowl is not only wasteful, but also impolite, and it also exposes a person's poor upbringing. For another example, when eating, get up and pick up food in front of others, and relax your belt when you are full of wine and food.
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