1. Establish good communication channels: keep good communication with children, respect their opinions and feelings, and make them feel understood and supported.

2. Give proper autonomy: Give children certain autonomy, give them the opportunity to make their own decisions and choices, and cultivate their independence and sense of responsibility.

3. Establish rules and disciplines: Establish clear family rules and disciplines to let children know what is acceptable behavior and what is unacceptable behavior. At the same time, children should be given some freedom and opportunities to express their personality and needs.

4. Provide positive encouragement and support: encourage children to pursue their interests and dreams, and provide necessary resources and support to help children achieve their goals.

5. Cultivate positive attitude and emotional management ability: educate children how to face setbacks and difficulties, cultivate children's positive attitude and emotional management ability, and enable them to better cope with various challenges in life.

6. Establish healthy living habits: educate children to develop good hygiene habits, eating habits and exercise habits, and pay attention to their physical and mental health.

7. Cultivate social skills: help children establish good interpersonal relationships, cultivate their social skills and cooperation skills, and enable children to get along better with others.

8. Give proper supervision and guidance: Give proper supervision and guidance to children's behaviors, ensure that they abide by family rules and social norms, and give them enough freedom to explore and develop themselves.