Circle education
The so-called circle (actually similar to the environmental atmosphere, the three are different from each other, but the core is the same) is divided into material and humanities. To be precise, this expression will be better? Physical environment and humanistic circle.
Physical environment
The physical environment is very simple, that is, it includes what each of us sees, except? People? In addition, the sum of everything else, which together construct and exude their own temperament, becomes a static energy field, which you can't see or touch, but affects us all the time.
You may have an experience that sometimes when we go to a place or occasion, we will be in a good mood or in a bad mood for no reason. When we see someone and meet some people and things, we will feel comfortable or uncomfortable for no reason. A lot of times, this? Without rhyme or reason? It is the energy field of the physical environment at work.
Then, the same is true of children's education. If you want your child to have a good overall mental state, high energy and good luck, his growth environment is an important factor for you to consider.
If we want to talk about how to design a good physical environment, I think it has something to do with a very important traditional vocabulary. Feng shui. Yes, the core of my understanding of feng shui is through science, no, it should be called? Organized? The layout of the ground (science must be organized, but organization is not necessarily scientific) makes the temperament and energy emitted by various objects form a field that is most suitable for human development (haha, say it in your own understanding, forget it if you don't understand it, and it is a huge specialized system, so I won't say much here).
Humanistic circle
In fact, as a member of the environment, why should we let him go? Humanities? What about the list? Because its function is relatively more obvious. Everyone we meet interacts with us all the time. The closer we get, the more interaction we have.
Among all the humanities circles, there are three circles that can most influence a person's development, that is, parents, teachers and friends. These three are the most important parts of the whole human environment, and what you need to know is that the quality of this circle often basically determines your fate.
Moreover, among these three roles, if you must pick the most important one, why not? Parents? Not others, exactly. Parents, as the founders of the most critical and basic development in a person's life, play a vital role, especially in the early stage (0-6 years old, even before birth). According to my observation, all parents who are really good at education will definitely attach importance to and practice early education (this is a huge professional system, so let's not talk about it).
In short, if we only sum up the most important point here, that is: the circle formed by parents, teachers and friends is very important on a person's growth path, especially parents.
Experience education
After the circle and the environment, shall we talk about the second one? Experience education.
Please, please think about it. what do you think? Experience? ?
Hehe, in fact, everything people see, hear, touch, taste, do and suffer belongs to experience, which includes all feelings of eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body and mind.
The people you see today, the books you read, the words you hear, the things you touch, the smells you smell, the things you eat and the things you do are all experiences. Everything in life is an experience.
The core of human difference is the difference of experience. Because with the depth, breadth and angle of a person's experience, a person's feelings, thoughts, patterns and growth must be different.
The same exercise, relaxing and running for a while, is not the same as endurance running for 3 hours.
Reading is the same. Turning over a book on a whim is different from reading 1 hour every day.
In the same year, the daily life at home, school and cram school is different from various activities and attempts after efficient study.
The same is life, and it is different to return to the original point after a flat life without wind and waves.
Have different experiences, people's thoughts, personalities, etc. Over time, it will be different, and then their fate will be different.
At this point, at the experience level, if we only sum up one thing, it is to tell us that we should try our best to let children have different depths, angles and breadth to experience them.
To sum up, this is why all education can't escape. Circle? And then what? Experience? Moreover, circle education and experience education are also the most fundamental education.
Therefore, education is not very simple! ~ if you want to grow up well, you must work hard to create a good circle and experience for yourself. Similarly, if you want your children to grow up well, you should also try to create a good circle and experience for them. That's the truth. Everything is simple, but it's just a big idea and direction, so? Seemingly? Simple, but really important? Do it. Of course it's not that light.
Supplement: whether it is a circle or experience, more money and less money will definitely have an impact, but it is not a decisive impact. The education mode of more money and less money, but as long as the cognitive and implementation methods are in place, the most essential purpose of education can be achieved.