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Family education must not have any form of domestic violence. How should family education be conducted?
China's Family Education Law has clearly stipulated that domestic violence should not be used in family education. However, when educating children, many parents are faced with some Xiong Haizi operations, and some grumpy parents do it directly. Even the old concept of "a dutiful son is born under the stick" is still active in the minds of many parents. Some parents think that children will be more obedient if they are rebellious and disobedient. For parents, such education will actually cast a very big shadow on their children. Family education should prohibit the occurrence of domestic violence, which may be a lifelong pain for children.

In family education, parents should communicate more with their children instead of beating and scolding them. Sometimes telling children some truth, more communication is very beneficial to the feelings between parents and children, and you can better understand what children are thinking. So as to better educate children, and if you directly beat and scold children, it will cause psychological problems for children. Many children were beaten and scolded by their parents because they were educated by domestic violence since childhood, which caused him a psychological shadow. He was always afraid of his family when he grew up. In this case, the affection between parents and children will be very weak, and even children will be afraid of their parents.

In the process of family education, parents should not only communicate with their children, but also let them experience it for themselves. It is useful to realize that it is difficult to make money, and it is useful to study hard. For example, some children don't know how difficult it is to make money. Parents can actually take their children to street stalls, or go to some rural pastoral areas to work, and usually let their children do housework. It is not easy to make money on some trivial things. Some things can be understood not by beating and scolding children, but by teaching them bit by bit.

In the way of family education, parents must also be tolerant and patient. Children sometimes don't know much about some things, so parents must be patient when educating. Don't get angry and beat and scold your child just because he doesn't understand in a few words. You should understand children, give them proper tolerance and forgive their mistakes when they do something wrong. Sometimes children don't make mistakes on purpose. Perhaps with the tolerance of parents, children will be more cautious in future.