When a child asks a sensitive question, we feel embarrassed. At first, we blush, so it's hard to tell, so we hide it when we answer. If a child can't get an accurate answer from his parents, he will seek the Internet by himself. If he sees something bad, he will get deeper and deeper.
It is better to answer their questions generously in a language that children can understand, so that children can really understand.
For example, the most common question "Where am I from?" We will tell the child directly that he came out of his mother's stomach. When he has further questions, he will combine scientific language, translate them into expressions suitable for children's age and explain them to him clearly.
2) In addition to what is forbidden, tell children what is appropriate.
If children have some bad habits, we will ban them in a limited way. In addition to prohibited items, it is also necessary to tell children what behaviors can be done, so that children can put them away freely.
For example, a child in primary school learns TV pictures and kisses another child. The other child is unhappy and disgusting. In this case, we should tell children that the way to express love between children is to hug or hold hands, not to kiss. Kissing is an expression, which will only be used when the two sides like each other when they grow up.
3) Let children dare to tell the truth.
Many times, children are afraid to tell their parents after being sexually assaulted. On the one hand, because he had never been exposed to sex education before, he mistakenly thought it was a bad thing and worried that his parents would scold him. On the other hand, because of the abuser's threat, "if you tell others, I will hurt you!" "
In order to make children dare to tell the truth to their parents, we should first give them sex education in time, and then let them believe in their parents, who will always be their protectors.
Tell your child in advance that "no matter what happens outside, tell your parents that their parents will help!" " "At the same time, don't use the police to scare children, make them believe in the police, and understand that the police are people who punish bad people.
4) It is convenient to use picture books for education.
There are many picture books about sex education now. You can show your children some picture books and explain them in detail in an illustrated way to make them easier to understand.