To encourage children's upbringing, we should not only be diligent in school moral education, but also be influenced by parents' education and carefully and correctly guided by parents.
How much a child is educated is a full reflection of whether the parenting education of parents is successful or not.
Here are 32 parenting etiquette I want to teach my children.
1. When you ask someone, say "I want to ask" first.
Testing that method yourself will increase people's friendliness. Suppose you are a service person, and a customer says: Give me a glass of water; Another customer said: I want to ask, can you pour me a glass of water? Does the latter make you feel more comfortable and valued? People are mutual, remember to be polite!
2. Remember to say thank you for what others give you!
This gratitude can gradually come from parenting education. For example, the baby gave you his little toy. Can you say: Is it for mother? It is a good educational method to let children form the habit of saying thank you and set an example.
There is no need to cut off the conversation of adults unless it is really urgent.
Being cut off is really annoying. I usually joke that I feel nothing when my speech is cut off, but if you are cut off all the time, the mood behind you will be chaotic. Don't ask me why I know and why I have experienced it.
Therefore, parents must let their children cultivate the habit of not casually cutting off adults from childhood! !
It's better to say "I'm sorry" or call out a name before talking to the old people or people you don't know the least.
Even if it is cut off, at least he will think that you are really in a hurry and know basic etiquette.
If you are not sure about doing something, ask your parents or teachers for their opinions and consent first.
This should be guaranteed by most children. Ask for other people's opinions.
6. Some accusations are best told only to friends.
I believe everyone knows how horrible the online language violence is now.
7, don't have to judge others, naturally praise the surface of others.
This is the same as the sixth point.
8. When people say hello to you, remember to reply politely and say hello to them.
Still have to lead by example, children have strong self-learning ability.
9. When visiting relatives, thank your friends' parents.
10, knock on the door before entering the house.
Although people who read this article have long thought that fathers are mothers, they were also children. When they were children, they didn't expect their parents to pry into their secrets, but they expected privacy.
So now you should pay attention to your children and set an example.
Let the children understand the habit of knocking at the door before entering the house.
1 1. Make it clear who you are on the phone before you go to the person you are looking for.
Instead of asking who is who and where.
Well, frankly speaking, I didn't know the order before I took the etiquette class. I used to feel very polite. I asked on the phone, who are you? Then I realized that I had to explain who I really am first, which would make people feel better.
12, thank you after receiving the gift.
Don't say too much about this.
13, no swearing.
People who love swearing should not know how to swear, which will lower their true identity.
I still remember that when I was in an ordinary high school, I studied and trained many small restaurants around me. Their children play together. One of them vomited at will, and the word "uneducated" was revealed in his speech and manners. Then there was a child. Although not particularly good-looking, but very polite. I'm going to eat in their restaurant. He will take the initiative to say, sister, what do you want to eat?
I can probably tell by comparing the business between the two families and their parents. At that time, I thought it didn't matter if the child didn't do well in the exam, but he must be polite and not swear.
14, there is no need to scold the population.
This kind of empathy, think about it.
15, under any circumstances, you don't have to make fun of others, which is cruel to the teased person.
You think you're just talking, but you don't know how much damage you've done to them.
16. Keep quiet and don't make noise even when watching the performance.
Suppose you have been watching TV series and someone is talking. Are you happy?
17. If you hit someone, say sorry at once.
If it doesn't hurt them, ordinary people won't scold you when they hear that they are sorry.
18. Cover your mouth when you have a dry cough or sneeze, and don't have to pick your nose in public.
Cough and sneeze cover it up. It's beautiful. Do you think sneezing will look good? Not to mention picking your nose.
19, remember to stop for a short time when entering or leaving a door to help the people behind open their hands.
"There is true love in the world and true love in the world." Ha ha ha ha ha, in short, it won't take a few minutes.
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20. When you see what your parents, teachers or next-door neighbors are doing, ask if you need help.
This will really give a good impression. When they really need an assistant, your appearance is his "light".
2 1. You can also learn some professional knowledge from helping adults do meaningful things.
Helping others is to make you develop!
22. Remember to thank others for their help, and don't take others' kindness for granted.
I remember that when I was in middle school, I was particularly elegant and even a little shy, but I was very helpful, so all my classmates around me made friends with me. In the long run, I am a little adrift, breaking the hearts of my two best friends. I was unreasonable and took their kindness for granted. Then they treated me badly, and I was very sad for a class. At that time, the teacher came to comfort me and help me tell the truth.
So now, I cherish my good people doubly, and I am stronger for them. It is not easy to make a few intimate friends on the road of life.
23. Use kitchen utensils correctly. Ask your parents if you don't know how to use it, or observe how other adults use it.
24, cinemas, airports, trains and other public places.
You don't have to talk loudly or cry. Don't use disobedience as an excuse.
The children in the cinema made a scene, and I was really angry. Although it is understandable that children are fidgeting when watching TV dramas, parents can manipulate them. I met a mother before, and kept whispering to her children to stop making trouble and be reasonable in a low voice, so that even if the children were a little noisy, because I could understand.
25. You don't have to reach for things that are far away from you on the table. Ask the people on the side to help you spread it out.
26, not self-centered, be kind to others.
27, understand the most basic dining etiquette, do not eat alone, do not eat leftovers.
28. Understand "where things are taken and where they are put back".
29. Love reading articles and form good habits.
Keep your promise and try your best to realize what you said.
3 1, establish a boundary with others, "others' belongings are not taken at will, but their own belongings are effectively controlled".
32. Don't lie.
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